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what if you are a 28 years old girl who doesn’t work for 3 years because abusive parents who lived in family troubles for 3 years ,and you been stuck in a long distance relationship with a boyfriend who always lets you down and is a liar and you live in a crowded third world country,,what is the kind of thinking that would make this girl see any positive in her life instead of self destructive thoughts and depression,,please help

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SayItsSo offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Is this all hypothetical?

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ameliaearthlin offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

the dream of a better life

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SayItsSo offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

I don’t get it..

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Compatior offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Be strong and endure.

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Compatior offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Oh, and don’t forget to fight for a positive future.

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orchid offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (18 minutes after post)

SayItsSo wrote:
Is this all hypothetical?

No ,it’s real

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orchid offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Compatior wrote:
Be strong and endure.

yes ,i think one must accept fate and move on

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courtybubble online Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 199 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (20 minutes after post)

why are you still with a bf who sucks that bad and is long distance. thats just stupid.

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SayItsSo offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (24 minutes after post)

white_orchid9108 wrote:

SayItsSo wrote:
Is this all hypothetical?

No ,it’s real

ur not anon hmm

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calemus offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

i believe the only reason to have a “BF” is because you are seriously considering marrying that person. you dont EVR want to get married to a lier, especialy a long distance lier.
i am an old fashoned type of person who believes that guy should take you from your situation and make a home for you.
if thats not your type of thing i understand. most females are now agenst that type of old fashoned living.

as for living witht the family find the most nicest, most productive one, and live there, start a food garden and restart life. make food grow from dirt, and make an income from something respectable you want to do.

and by the way, dont wait for the guy i mentioned, you may never meet him. theres not many like that left.

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