So there’s this girl i like at my new school. - Help.com

Tell her how you feel, and she’ll appreciate the honesty. Come right out and say that you’ve never done this kind of thing before, and then ask her if she’s free. I know it sounds cliche but honesty really is the best policy when asking out girls!!

Just ask her out sometime when her friends aren’t around. If you can’t find a time when she’s alone then ask her out through IM or something. But if she gives you some lame excuse that has absolutely nothing to do with anything such as “I can’t date anybody right now because I’m spending too much time cultivating wild celery” then take the hint and move on - girls very rarely give a straight no.

I’m on the whole against movies as first dates.. because you spend all the time watching a screen and not talking. I prefer small coffee shops or walks in parks and stuff like that.. but its down to personal preference. If you guys “click” then you’ll have no shortage of stuff to talk about.

She’ll be nervous also, and the more you hang out with her the more relaxed you’ll be. Chances are she’s already dated a few guys so she’s used to the initial nervousness. If you think its going to really be a problem then go to a movie with her - but because you won’t do much talking during the movie, don’t expect to know her better when the credits start rolling :)

Yeah.. that could be good. But be prepared for her to ask to meet you only in the evening. There’s a stereotype that dates happen only at night and I don’t know if she’ll stick to that or not.