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I have a problem, there’s this girl that i like since

the start of my graduation, 4 years later we ve been selected in the same company, Its always been like she knows that I like her, but I ve never had much to be with her, 2 years earlier she told me quite rudely that she was with someone else. I stopped talking but then she starts to talk again and gives me all this friendship crap. I ve been there for her in whatever way I could. I love her very much, but its begun to hurt so much that it has affected my performance of my duties and hindered me in my ambitions, Please help!!!

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mar98 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Dracut, MA, US | 4 months ago (46 minutes after post)

Unfortunately it sounds like she just sees you as a friend. Most people on here are going to tell you to just move on.

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Psuedomonas123 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (50 minutes after post)

I know. but the company we got selected in, she only invited me, not even the guy that she was with. plus she behaves so oddly. She’s quiet at times, acts like a baby or like a very mature girl sometimes even gives me cute little seductive looks as if just to mock me. I am really confused.

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~anonymous~ offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (51 minutes after post)

awww i’m sorry that doesn’t sound good. i’m not bluntly going to say to move on, but you should probably test the waters. you never know, maybe this girl is a closet ***** and likes playing hard to get? lol well hey, anything is possible

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SayItsSo offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

hmmm u could act like u have another girl and spoil this fake girl and shower her with gifts and make the girl u love curious and a bit jealous then be really sad one day and say u and the girl broke up and u feel bad cuz this girl u spoiled cheated on u AND right when she’s comforting u…MAKE OUT WITH HER!

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SayItsSo offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

It’s called a pitty bang/sex but something could come out of it!

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pseudomonas123 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

Lol, thanks for the suggestion but you know, she’d figure it out, I cant feign being attracted to anyone else. although she does act a little ticked and ignores me if she sees me with some other girl. Besides I wouldnt be able to get myself to cheat her into making out, I ve been working at improving myself for four years so that I can be a person she likes. I want to be true to her.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

Hi friend I’am Kamal in Nepal Can you friendship with me?

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