I had this amazing thing with this girl in U.S.A, but then my visa expired… - Help.com

I had this amazing thing with this girl in U.S.A, but then my visa expired…

I had to come back to my country because my work visa was over, now we keep talking to each other but it is way too hard for me to keep doing so.

I think what we had was special. It lasted 2 months aprox. Now it hurts me to keep touch, but I don’t wanna tell her that either. I’m not even sure if she is in the same place.

I don’t know what to do

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offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (4 minutes after post)

make her come to u

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calai22 offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Rio De Janeiro, 21, BR | 3 years, 9 months ago (5 minutes after post)

I would if lived by myself but I live with my mom and sister

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samsungfirsbusiness offline Verified User (3 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (8 minutes after post)

go back to her then for like a holiday or sumthing like that or if not keep going as you are

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calai22 offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Rio De Janeiro, 21, BR | 3 years, 9 months ago (9 minutes after post)

It’s getting hard to cope to keep going like that

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (10 minutes after post)

thank god, stay in ur own country we dont need u here, obviously she didnt either or she would of married you or came with u. if it was up to me, i would have posts 100 yards apart, surrounding this great country, and shoot people like u as soon as u came into sight….bang…

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samsungfirsbusiness offline Verified User (3 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (11 minutes after post)

well youll have to learn to cope and deal with it wont you, you cant always have it your way

calai22 wrote:
It’s getting hard to cope to keep going like that

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calai22 offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Rio De Janeiro, 21, BR | 3 years, 9 months ago (14 minutes after post)

I tottaly get u man, when I was in U.S (both as an exchanged studant) I tottaly hated the imigrants. Every time a person approached me at work speaking spanish I was like “goddamnit, u’re IN USA go learn some goddamn english”. I’m with you bro

But I’m a tottaly different case and tottaly feel you.

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joe offline Verified User (3 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (34 minutes after post)

I just have two things to say to you..

1. Wear a shirt. Please.

2. See 1.

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Dr.Jennyfer offline Verified User (4 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (46 minutes after post)

calai22 wrote:
I tottaly get u man, when I was in U.S (both as an exchanged studant) I tottaly hated the imigrants. Every time a person approached me at work speaking spanish I was like “goddamnit, u’re IN USA go learn some goddamn english”. I’m with you bro

But I’m a tottaly different case and tottaly feel you.

i feel offended.IM HISPANIC !!

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Dr.Jennyfer offline Verified User (4 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (46 minutes after post)

OK. my opinion is for you to tell her to cross over and get married

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samsungfirsbusiness offline Verified User (3 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (5 hours, 19 minutes after post)

calai22 wrote:
I tottaly get u man, when I was in U.S (both as an exchanged studant) I tottaly hated the imigrants. Every time a person approached me at work speaking spanish I was like “goddamnit, u’re IN USA go learn some goddamn english”. I’m with you bro

But I’m a tottaly different case and tottaly feel you.

well no weve established that what are you going to do bout it

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