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I don’t know where to go with this embaressing, disgusting confesion, nor do I know where to get help.

I find myself attracted to very young girls. (Like, young, preteen…) It disgusts me inside, but my hormones scream in joy. I’ve never nor do I plan on acting on these urges, but I want them to stop. I’ve told myself 100 times how disgusting and repulsive it is, but it never helps. It’s so wrong and it’s starting to piss me off.

Please, tell me what to do! I even have a girlfriend. Been with her for soon an entire year. Love her to death, but still I get these urges, makes me want to puke.

/EDIT: I’m 17 years old

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claireedi offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

Seek professional help. You need to talk to a counselor that is trained in this area. You need someone to work with you until you find out the reason behind the urges….once you can figure out why you can do something about it.

I know someone in my family with the same urges and he has not stayed in therapy and the results have been devastating. It is a lot of work and to get to the bottom of your urges. I strongly recommend you find a professional and expect to spend a lot of time with them.

I wish you luck. Knowing you have these issues and reach out is a great first step. Flow it up with a call to a professional. You deserve to have your life back without things that make you feel bad.

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