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Boy problems suck…

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months now. we are still in highschool and both 16. i love him with all my heart, if i didnt i still wouldnt be with him this long you know? But hes the type of guy that thinks we are going to spend the rest of our lives together. i told him i didnt want to talk about the future. he never asked why so i never told him. but the truth is that i dont feel that hes the one i want to spend the rest of my life with, im only 16 ive only been with 3 guys im not ready to make that much of a comittment i dont want to feel that i missed out in life because i stayed with him. but we promised never to keep things from eachother and ive been keeping this from him for about 4 months now. Should i tell him? and risk loosing him? helppp :(

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hottpinklipstic offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (14 hours, 9 minutes after post)

Just tell him you want to see other people but you two should still date. Hopefully, he will understand and if not, he’s not the right one. Obviously he’s head over heels for you and will want to wait for you while you make sure you want him.

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Gabby_woah offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (18 hours, 20 minutes after post)

hottpinklipstic wrote:
Just tell him you want to see other people but you two should still date. Hopefully, he will understand and if not, he’s not the right one. Obviously he’s head over heels for you and will want to wait for you while you make sure you want him.

I don’t want to see other people while I’m with him tho

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3 months, 3 weeks ago (18 hours, 40 minutes after post)

He obviously loves you alot, he’ll want you to be honest with him. Just tell him, and see how he reacts, if he reacts in a positive way, stay with him. If he reacts in a negative way, maybe he’s not the one after all.

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Gabby_woah offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (18 hours, 59 minutes after post)

He’s crazy about me, and I love him alot but I mean I’m 16 he loves me but I think I a lot of it is infatuation and he doesn’t know the difference. I think this because Im his first girlfriend. But I know him like the back of my hand, he probably would take it the wrong way and think I never loved him

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