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How to gain my reputation back?

I will stay anonymous here. Just wondering ,what can a popular (i was never mean etc,just became famous in my country in modeling and acting.)girl, gain her good reputation again.when you are almost every week in media in your country, it s tough to make pple see that u r not a bad person. I m 19, and everybody in my uni is scared to talk to me,the think popular pple have everything but this is so untrue!. i m so sad

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samsungfirsbusiness offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (17 minutes after post)

why are they scared of you?? and if i was you while your in the media i would just put a breif message out saying somthing like i dont intend to offend any one in what i do (dunno what you do but just put out a statement saying how you feel)

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (18 minutes after post)

Dress like a normal person and chat with normal people in coffee shops, online, etc. Travel to places people don’t know you. Wear a disguise. Laugh and don’t take yourself seriously. Get people to joke with you. Ask people about themselves and show a genuine interest.

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (42 minutes after post)

Join clubs and organizations on campus that focus on issues that interest you. When the attention turns to you, make a point about the topic at hand. Be sincerely interested in what others are saying and doing. In time, you will make friends who know the real you.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (53 minutes after post)

they r scared propably because the zines usually say i am just a party girl, snif coke , have many bffs and all these media bullshits. most of things are not true. pple in uni like me , or admire me, but they seem to believe that in order to be friend of mine, they have to be “someone” first. (what a lame thought!)
all i say when i hear smthin like that, is that “c’mon everybody is somebody and dont believe what u read” but i got tired on trying to be positive and convince them that the whole situation is a “big fake bubble”. at the moment i travel a lot, thank God so i see many friends all over the world but everytime i m back on campus i just stay home. excuse my bad english btw.

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (56 minutes after post)

Everyone is insecure. The best way to relieve that is not to say something comforting (they won’t believe it and it will sound patronizing no matter how careful you try) but just to make fun of yourself and show you can socialize exactly the way they do with friends.

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zilverknight offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (56 minutes after post)

Surround yourself with friend close friends. Friends you can trust if you still have that at least. If not start here to keep your self esteem up. The media can be very cruel. but the media can forget very quickly as well. So spend time with people who you hold dearest. Keep your head up high and in time hopefully it will all blow over.
Don’t give up no matter how hard the situation may be

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