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My girlfriend lives 2 hours away on train and I saw her last on saturday 1st July 09 but since she went back home things dont seem the same…

we have been speaking normally over msn but she has not been saying good bye or even telling me she has to go…one of my contacts has recently been winding me up intentionally…he has been talkin about me and my gf nastily to me… apparently she sed bye to him but im not sure if i belive him as he lies a lot and tends to cause trouble…any good advice?

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xXSunshineXx offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

I would just talk to her about yhow you feel right now and see what she says. The best way to find anything out is to talk!

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Come on, MSN sucks. At least talk on the phone or skype. If this 2 hours away thing is going to last, you’re sunk. You need lots of face time to keep a relationship going. Can’t you see her on the weekends? Go Friday night and come back Monday morning.

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wattoburger offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

we do talk on the phone and skype all the time

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Face time is essential and girls (who are in love with you anyway) love surprise visits. Pull a couple of those and take some flowers and do something fun and she’ll remember you as a hero. Of course this can blow up in your face if she’s lost interest but life is all about risk.

Men are attractive when they take action and solve problems. If you are passive and far away, then she loses interest.

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wattoburger offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

tnx linuxya ill keep tht in mind

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xucphra offline Verified User (3 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 7 minutes after post)

my advice would be to talk to her on the phone and ask wahts up with her maybe she just misses u and it hurts to say bye (idk) but it might b true.

and the guy dnt worry bout tht if he lies all the time like u said i wouldnt believe him but NEVER let ur gaurd down. for some reason girls like a guy who takes control so if u take initiative and try ur best to save the realtionship like i did odds r itll work out but with me it exploded in my face.

i hope everything works out

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