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last week me and my boyfriend of 4 months were textin.

I ran out of what to say and we have been sayin we love each other for 2 months, so I told him that I loved him. Then he texted me back and said “NO YOU DONT!” so i told him i did and we were arguin about so he told me to call him so I did. When we were talkin he kept tellin me I didnt love him and he hung up and I didnt call right back so he texted me and said “SEE I TOLD YOU!” so then I called him and told him I did love him. Then he told me that I didnt care and that really hurt me so I hung up. Then he called back and said “YOU KNOW WHAT THIS IS THE LAST TIME YOU WILL EVER HEAR ME SAY THIS! GOODBYE!” Then he hung up and I started cryin. He called me back and heard me cryin and said “are you just doin that or are you really cryin?” so I told him I was really cryin then hung up. About 5 minutes later he texted me and told me that he was sorry and he knew I loved and cared for him. So later that night he started up again but this time it was worse. I called his friend and was cryin then while I was on the phone with his friend he called. So his friend got off and was talkin to him now. While I was sittin on my bed he called me back and said he was sorry and that he needs to learn to keep his temper down. He kept tellin me over and over that he loved me and he kept callin me baby. So that night I sent him a thing on myspace tellin him exactly how I felt for him and it was all good things. Well today a week later he read it and he called me and told me that it was the weirdest thing he has ever heard said to him. And that was 7 and a half hours ago. And he wont text me or call me back. What do I do. I dont know if he just dont know what to think of it or if he doesent feel the same way…please answer me I really need help. :*(

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 139 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Are guys 11 years old? That’s the kind of games 11 year olds play!

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Gabby_woah offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Well you two have been going out for awhile. Has this happened before?

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roderiquefa offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

No we’re not 11 years old ok!!!!!!! This to me means the world to get serious help. So if your just gonna take it as a game then you need HELP YOURSELF!!!!!

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 139 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Then how old are you, both of you?

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Gabby_woah offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

I’m being serious tho trying to help you the best I can has this happened before?

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rose17mc offline Verified User (3 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 24 minutes after post)

I agree wit Littlenick. Your boyfriends sounds very immature. he reminds me of my cousins bf of 2 years. he doe the exact same thing the other day he text her saying he hatedher an never to speak to him again. then the next day after not speaking he rings acts like nothing happens. It all started out like you an ur boyfriend harmless, but now he hits her when he is in a temper an then says sorry that he didnt remember. he has since gone to the doctors is getting help for split personaliy disorer. maybe u shud ge ur bf checked

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3 months, 4 weeks ago (20 hours, 57 minutes after post)

I agree with littlenick.. this is seems to be what kids do… No bing mean..
However, DO NOT DO NOT call him text email write on his myspace nothing…. STOP and look at what you have and WHO YOU ARE…
I just got dumped my a semi-great guy and called, text drove by his house, called his friends CRYIED and CRYIED and it made the situation wores.. If i would have left gracefully there was a chance, but not NOTHING!!!
So live for YOU! Dont let him know that your heart is breaking inside cry at home, dont let your friends know because he might call them, and you want him to think that you are OKAY and he can’t hurt you because you are a STRONG STRONG young lady….

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misswalkabou offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

Sounds like a loser. Dump him.

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