hi ppl, please let me know i am not alone becuz i feel totally alone right now…..

darsmars

hi ppl, please let me know i am not alone becuz i feel totally alone right now…

.. i am a single mother and i have become severely anti-social…. which may not be good at all for my kids…. i know other ppl in a childs life makes a difference and helps them grow as thier own lil ppl. they do go to the sitters everyday so that helps. i say i do things and ppl see such a positive person but all that deminishes as soon as one bad thought enters my mind. i also hate feeling like all i do is whine… :( i just have noone there for me.i have my children but they can’t hold u like a mans arms feel like. i thought i did but it was just a booty call i thought i could change. apperantly he’s just as crzy as i am which may not be a good thing.

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Cell 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

You are not alone.

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dear_dan 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

You’re not alone. We all screw up and plan on being better and then screw up again. All we can do is get back up and try again and forgive ourselves when we fail.

Cell 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 4 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Can you spend more time with positive people? Do you have nice friends you could spend time with?

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darsmars 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (22 minutes after post)

its hard for me to feel like i’m not alone, i’m off that mountain and now in the middle of town and i still feel isolated

Anonymous #
4 months ago (30 minutes after post)

You’re not alone. There are people that love you. Your child[ren] love and need you.

STE3L 16 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (35 minutes after post)

ferst, you got us
second,don’t let the kids go to sitters toooo much, thay may resent that later on, e.g. “you where never ther”(save haveing that problem)
finaly, how knows he might be in the same sorta tub.

(oh and plz note that i’m 15, so my advice mightnt be so good it this regard)

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zeleto6 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (40 minutes after post)

You’ll be alright…You’ve admitted your anti-social and that my dear is the beginning of your journey…NOW;;;Focus on a quick and productive journey…

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darsmars 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (17 hours, 29 minutes after post)

i try to focus but all i keep doing is reverting after i feel like i’ve been alone too long. right now seems like a beginning tho, i started anti-depressants and its only bin a few days. i will take everything one day at a time. thank you all for your feedback. i think that he is in the same boat too.

darsmars 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (17 hours, 35 minutes after post)

thank you all for your feedback, i really don’t know how to wrap this one up alone. i think i will be ending that relationship soon. it doesn’t help my depression.

zeleto6 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (22 hours, 52 minutes after post)

Just returned on line…

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zeleto6 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (23 hours, 20 minutes after post)

Are you in need of feedback ???

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nowudoneit 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

I think that you need to find some adult friends that have children the same age as yours. Once you surround yourself with new friends you will become more confindent and keep him around just as what you know he is sometimes a booty call is all we need too. :) but keep in mind that is all he is. Take the kids to the mall playgrounds or parks places where you can meet other mothers or parents to talk with.

zeleto6 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

Been gone for awhile !!!
Sorry………….
Still struggling ???
I’m watching help.com !!!

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darsmars 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

i am back now , check once in awhile here, things slowly change :)

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