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Is he interested or hard to read?

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I keep seeing him recently ard college and, he keeps looking in my direction and things, like if he leaves a place im at, he would turn round and look. From a little distance or when he thinks i’m not aware, he kinda lengthens the staring, but when we have eye contact, he would look away. once in a lift when he came in, stood beside me and looked at me for abit. and at a school party, we somehow ended up dancing beside each other but he just looked over at me a few times. And suddenly he walked off. once in a train cabin, he was watching my face, feeling uncomfortable, i looked u pto meet his gaze and we had this eye contact thing for about 2-3 secs when he then broke it.

he doesnt touch me, but on occasion he would find himself ard my vicinity. if i brush past him on accident, he wouldnt move.

once i was sitting alone eating and he came out of a room and sat quietly behind me. a friend told me to go get stuff in a room. he immediately rushed forward to walk with me to the room and help me get the stuff. all this without saying a word, and we didnt know each other. and we had a very weird conversation. i asked some dumb qns, which he answered but was pretty quiet and subdued.

My friends say he’s hard to read though.. i dont understand what they mean by that. What do you think? thansk!

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3 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

I think he is interested in you but is trying to figure you out at the same time before making a move..

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dear_dan offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

I think he is shy or you make him nervous so he doesn’t know what to say to you. Tale it easy he may get up the nerve to ask you out. If not, maybe it wasn’t meant to be. Oh, next time you catch him staring at you make sure you smile at him.

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zeleto6 offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

Having two girls of my own,I’d have to say he’s new at relationships & communication skills or he’s up to no good !!!

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SayItsSo offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (59 minutes after post)

do it to it

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zeleto6 offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

FOCUS !!!

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (10 hours, 36 minutes after post)

hello. thanks everyone for all the replies!
anonymous & njwingate: thanks! im not sure how to show interest though. haha, im not too sure abt the quiet thing as well..he does have some quiet moments from what ive seen..
dear_dan: thanks. hmmm.. hes not known to be the shy type.. nervous im not sure, possible. i will try to smile, provided i dont do the look-away thing myself ;)
sayitsso: do what, haha
zeleto6: focus on what? i doubt he’s new at communication skills, he’s very sociable. relationships.. possibly. and what do you mean up to no good? haha

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