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I Just Don’t Know What To Do

For the past six years I have been asked to travel the world and visit several different countries. The first year it was to go to England and France; the second it was to California; then Engand, France, Belgium, the Netherlands, Germany, and Switzerland; the third year I was asked to go to Japan; then last year I was asked to go to Australia. This time I’m offered to one of the countries I have wented to go to most of all; Italy, Sicily, and Greece.

Every year I have had to turn down these offers because of money and because I need to take this time to visit family which I hardly ever see. I feel torn, family or my dreams of visiting another country? If I do go to Italy and don’t visit family, would that be selfish of me? I feel so frustrated and confused. I just don’t know what to anymore. I love to be offere these great trips but it pains me to throw them away.

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hobbit_ears1 offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

You must definately go and I am amazed your family arent encouraging you to do so. These are the chances in life you will always regret if you dont. It is your life and you must always follow your dreams - not many of us get to. If your family dont understand that then I am gobsmacked

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Arkia Valkair offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

You should go. Sure it’s selfish, but if you can’t be selfish every so often you won’t get much out of life.

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STE3L offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 26 minutes after post)

hobbit_ears1 wrote:
You must definately go and I am amazed your family arent encouraging you to do so. These are the chances in life you will always regret if you dont. It is your life and you must always follow your dreams - not many of us get to. If your family dont understand that then I am gobsmacked

i second that motion!

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WillowDove offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

well, I talked to my grandmother about it and she said that I should go for it even if it wil be two intil I see her if I go. I think this is the trip that I go on!

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WillowDove offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

well, I talked to my grandmother about it and she said that I should go for it even if it will be two years intil I see her if I go. I think this is the trip that I go on!

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BeeCountry offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 days, 21 hours after post)

the trip wont las a whole month. u can visit them before or after the trip

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WillowDove offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week after post)

mom and dad said it’s either one or the other…. not both

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WillowDove offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

it’s oficcial, I’m going to Italy

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