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what should i do?

????????? i can’t stop thinking about my ex………. why is it so hard…..i’m still madly in love with him but he doesn’t want to know…..we broke up in March for the second time…he broke my heart last summer too and i’m not prepared to forgive him i just want to move on….found a guy who’ll really cares for me but i still cry over my ex….how do i get over this :(

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katemonsoon offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Louth, 19, IE | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

time heals all wounds…i know thats not enough when your in pain and feeling as bad as you do…buts thats all that will heal you…time

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3 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

am i being fair to the new guy if i still feel so strongly for my ex??….it ended badly and we never really finalised it or talked it through. I still fight with him in my head, still have problems with how he sees me. He called me a liar and is adamant i’m still not able to face it but still really annoys me because i know i’m not but we both just walked away and haven’t spoken about it since. should i speak to my ex and sort it out just so i can feel better about moving on? I haven’t told him i’m with someone else and when i do i know it’ll never be the same between us….basically i just wanna know if i should go talk to my ex? he won’t be happy to hear i’ve moved on but i can’t stay here waiting for him to return forever. I’m going to a festival in sept and know my ex will be there. guess i should probably tell him before i he sees us together????//////////

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SayItsSo offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

u just need to let go…u’ll see how really great others are to u and u’ll think i deserve to be treated good and realize that person treated u like **** and u’ll just move on naturally …no use trying a quick fix…it’ll come in time! I don’t think u ever stop loving someone no matter what they do to u…

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