So stop helping if they’re not going to appreciate it.
jcd wrote:
So stop helping if they’re not going to appreciate it.
Easier said then done i guess…
Not for me. I’m not afraid to tell people to f**k off when they’re being like that, even family.
jcd wrote:
Not for me. I’m not afraid to tell people to f**k off when they’re being like that, even family.
I just dont know how but they dont seem to have any problem treating me like crap..
~willard~ wrote:
jcd wrote:
Not for me. I’m not afraid to tell people to f**k off when they’re being like that, even family.
I just dont know how but they dont seem to have any problem treating me like crap..
And if you don’t stand up for yourself, they’re going to keep treating you like crap. I used to be like that and let people walk all over me, but not anymore. I eventually got tired of it and started saying no to people who were trying to take advantage of me. It’s not selfish to think of yourself every once in a while.
I’ll go out of my way to help someone, until I feel that they’re trying to take advantage of me. Then you just have to stand up for yourself and say no.
jcd wrote:
I’ll go out of my way to help someone, until I feel that they’re trying to take advantage of me. Then you just have to stand up for yourself and say no.
I know and thats what ive been trying to do now! i know its not going to be easy but this is dumb and rediculous!
My mom was telling me how proud she was of me to stand up for myself and then today she said that i was wrong. Uh…. ok?
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You have a good heart. Help, don’t help. Either way, do it for you and care not for the return.
Eddieee wrote:
You have a good heart. Help, don’t help. Either way, do it for you and care not for the return.
Thats the thing.. i do it just to help and THEN once im helping them with what they asked of me, they get mad!!!! and yell and cuss at me! i dont deserve this.. im done.. i cant take this anymore..
I guess i told about this to you something…
God is still looking at you… and He will always repay you for your help. You don;t need them to appreciate it, cause God does that.
He is always there looking, and he counts every time you help. And one day, i’m not sure when he is going to give you back all the good things you’ve done for others.
Help is something you feel you have to do, if you don’t feel that way.. you better don’t help..
and you should really tell your family how you feel.. really dear
I was seperated from my family when i was 10 due to a catastrophic event of nature that i’d rather not talk about. They’re all still alive, but they were on the other side of the country than me when i found out where they were, and i was with these really cruel foster parents. When i was 12 i managed to get to the other side of the country to look for my real parents because my foster parents treated me like ****. i cannot express the feelings of hatred i felt towards my foster parents, and i didn’t know exactly where my real parents were, but life had me so down i was willing to take the chance, and as fate would have it i found my real parents. I guess the point to my story is that life can really kick you while you’re down so much that you do drastic things to try to avoid the suffering. When i think of it there’s a good chance i could have died of hunger on the way or something of that sort, but still i find it was worth it to take the chance. I’m not trying to suggust departing yourself from your family for good, as i don’t know the whole story behind this, but i’m just saying concider your options and do whatever you think will have the best effect on you. Life can be so cruel sometimes. The question is, when life gets that cruel, how will you respond back at life?
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In my opinion, if they treat you like crap DON’T help them. Easier said then done, yes, but I’d still say NO. They are ripping you apart. You don’t need that. For once, think about YOU. Not them. Just you. What do you need? I think you need time away from your family.
~Nat~ wrote:
In my opinion, if they treat you like crap DON’T help them. Easier said then done, yes, but I’d still say NO. They are ripping you apart. You don’t need that. For once, think about YOU. Not them. Just you. What do you need? I think you need time away from your family.
So do i but i have no means to take that time to get away! They have stressed me to the max and now i can barley afford to make it the next 2 weeks till i get paid again. Im sick of how all my family wants is money for this and that.. i hate money! I wish we didnt need it but we do. People just want money more then their family i guess…
~willard~ wrote:
~Nat~ wrote:
In my opinion, if they treat you like crap DON’T help them. Easier said then done, yes, but I’d still say NO. They are ripping you apart. You don’t need that. For once, think about YOU. Not them. Just you. What do you need? I think you need time away from your family.
So do i but i have no means to take that time to get away! They have stressed me to the max and now i can barley afford to make it the next 2 weeks till i get paid again. Im sick of how all my family wants is money for this and that.. i hate money! I wish we didnt need it but we do. People just want money more then their family i guess…
They say that blood is thicker than water, but money is thicker than blood.
jcd wrote:
~willard~ wrote:
~Nat~ wrote:
In my opinion, if they treat you like crap DON’T help them. Easier said then done, yes, but I’d still say NO. They are ripping you apart. You don’t need that. For once, think about YOU. Not them. Just you. What do you need? I think you need time away from your family.
So do i but i have no means to take that time to get away! They have stressed me to the max and now i can barley afford to make it the next 2 weeks till i get paid again. Im sick of how all my family wants is money for this and that.. i hate money! I wish we didnt need it but we do. People just want money more then their family i guess…
They say that blood is thicker than water, but money is thicker than blood.
I just wish money wasnt more important than people… its pathetic especially when we are talking about family! I wouls LOVE a nice weekend away from the hell hole im in right now where everyone is against me for not just, letting them use me!!!! Im not a money tree, im not a punching bag, and im not a toy!!!! If you want to get something, go F***ING gat it yourself!!!!!
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