Family help: I’m SICK AND TIRED OF MY FAMILY BUT I DO LOVE THEM its - Help.com

I know exactly how you feel. I have been fairly independant however still live at home and have not had a consistent employer over the past 2 yrs, no savings so can’t move out unforunately. I am educated but as a university gradudate I wish they would fill you in how hard it is out there to get a job let alone something that doesn’t pay less than the low 30,000’s and you just can’t survive on that. I am single and currently unemployed. I am sick of the constant in your face all of the time. My parents just lent me money for a car (they couldn’t afford nor could I) and now its hanging over my head like a noose. I just hate being at home and I have always hated being at home since I was a child.

you know strange though but when i read your post..i thought someone is reading pages out of my own life..i exactly know how you feel..i live with my parents..i am broke and unemployed..i broke up with the only guy i ever loved..the irony however was that i was always considered the brightest in my family among the 3 siblings..i always had good grades and i was quite bright but today they are way better off than me..settled and livin it up.. and sadly though i remain unemployed..nobody in their wildest thought that i would fare this bad..itook up a job for a while and i hated it and moved on..my parents keep nagging me everyday as well..i hate living with them but i love them too and i don’t wanna hurt them..i feel so trapped..sometimes i feel as if i failed miserably to live up to everyones expectations and it hurts so bad..my life sucks totally..but i believe in god..i think he has a plan for everyone of us..right now the times is not good for us but it will all be fine..don’t stop believing ..evrything will work out for the best..god bless you

i always did well in school before and now i have realised it was because my mum was working at the time and therefore she wasn’t there to nag me 24/7 and i could just get on with my work but now she’s at home all the time and she criticizes my every move and makes me feel like my way of doing things is always wrong and that i should follow her way to wash dishes her way to go shopping her way to study she’s spoiling my life and i think she’s doing it on purpose just to wreck my life. I also can’t even stand her voice anymore and she makes me feel like i’m not going to survive without her help in life and that i’m totally pathetic she doesn’t even realise how much damage she is doing to my self esteem i’ve had to go into therapy because of this and i haven’t even completed my uni education she’s totally ****** up my life.