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Positive thinking, good studies and good relationships advice.

My past isn’t that great. It was full of negative thinking, studies were good but I think they were less remarkable than what I could have achieved. Failed a couple of times in relationships. Right now, I like a girl but I am not sure whether to go ahead with it or not. I don’t feel sure of my emotions as sometimes I feel I like her, sometimes I feel it might only be a passing infatuation. So, I am in a bit of a mess.

I am trying to bring myself together and become positive. I’ve done a lot of geeky stuff and lived alone with no friends or a few friends who are lonely like me. But, now I want to go out and meet people. I want to interact with people. Here are my goals:

1. Be the most entertaining, charming and interesting person wherever I go. :-)
2. Talk to strangers and understand them. (I know it is not possible to be friends with everyone but some of those strangers might be potential future friends. I need to talk to them so that I don’t miss any potential friends. Am I right?)
3. Do one thing everyday that I’ve never done before. If that’s too much, do at least one new thing a week.
4. Learn one new useful science or math concept every day.
5. Learn a new local or international language.

Does this sound like a good plan? I really want to be happy and live a wholesome life. Please help me with this. If you like point 3 above, can you share some ideas of things that I can start doing. I have lots of time in the weekends to do new things.

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