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We just broke up…

. we were two weeks from our one year…. and he ended it.
I am absolutely devastated…. I don’t know what to do? Do I get over him fast? Do I try and get my mind off of it?
I love him SO much, and I can’t stop crying….
It literally happened a few hours ago, and I can’t get a hold of my friends, I have no idea what to do now. My entire future was planned around him…. We were going to move out in a month, I was going to quit my ****** dramatic job here in this crappy town, and we were going to live closer to his work and I have been looking for work in that area. He says we need to stay best friends but I know that never happens….
He knows exactly how hurt I am, like I am entirely heartbroken….
All I want is for him to lay awake at night and remember how much he loves me and come knocking on my door at 2am to tell me that he wants me back and can’t live without me….
I haven’t even learned anything from this relationship. At least my past crappy ones I took something from…. This just feels like I have had the best year of my life because of him, and now it is over….

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rosanna_angelno1 offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

I’m sorry you broke up. But if you love him as much as you sa you do, don’t give up yet. Talk to him. Try to solve it. Why did he reak up with, try to understand where he’s coming from. Have you always communicated well, becasue you may feel you had a great year. But to him it mayb be nothing more than suffocation.

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