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extremely huge problem.

about a year ago, my dad found out my mom was friends with a guy that liked her. this just happened because my dad was looking through my moms phone and the guy sent my mom a text saying “morning beautiful” so he went off. he thinks my mom was cheating on him but the guy likes her and my mom would never do a thing like that. she never liked the guy that way. my dad looked for the man and found out he had a criminal record of beating women. he almost killed his last wife by beating her with a tire iron. then it went too far. my dad started ruining stuff in the house. it was the worst argue between my parents yet. my brother escaped the house by jumping out of the window. he went to his friends house and called the police. my dad went to jail for a day and was charged with disorderly conduct. he wasn’t allowed to see any of the family for a year, but the charges were dropped when he pleaded not guilty. there were still arguments between my parents. but about a week ago, the most horrifying thing happened. both of my brothers were out of the house when they started arguing. the next thing i know i hear my mom screaming for help. my dad was beating her. he slapped her in the face, stomped on her foot, twisted her arm, and threw her on the ground and she hit her head on a beam. i screamed and ran out of the house with my mom. we were in the apartment complex behind my house when i called my brother. i told him and he called the police. i waited until the police came and i made sure my dad didn’t see my mom when the police came just in case my dad did anything. he got arrested again and is currently not allowed to see any of us except my oldest brother. the night he stayed in prison he had a heart attack and stayed in the hospital. he is staying at my cousins house now.i just want it all to stop. can anybody tell me how to stop all of this?

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Cell 64 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

You can’t do anything. You’re the kid. Just be there for your mom. Nothing is your fault. You will just have to wait and see how things pan out. I’m sorry things have been so tough for you.

You can't do anything. You're the kid. Just be there for your mom. Nothing is your fault. You will just have to wait and see how things pan out. I'm sorry things have been so tough for you.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

i have no way of stoping it, niether does anyone else, sorry to be harsh but just wait a little bit it will die down?

i have no way of stoping it, niether does anyone else, sorry to be harsh but just wait a little bit it will die down?

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Unnamed Desire 7 #
Miami, FL, US | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

theres not an easy way to stop an abusive father maybe you could talk to him or both of your parents and tell them how you feel or maybe your mom could move away from your dad for a while and still visit him in the hospital until he gets better and stops beating her up

theres not an easy way to stop an abusive father maybe you could talk to him or both of your parents and tell them how you feel or maybe your mom could move away from your dad for a while and still visit him in the hospital until he gets better and stops beating her up

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armygurl32 1 #
US | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (2 hours, 39 minutes after post)

I’m so sorry you have to go through this. I know it must be a difficult time. There is really no way of stopping it, only healing from it. The best thing you can do is realize that in no way are you at fault. Your parents are adults and it is their responsibility to care for you, and at this time your father is incapable of doing so. I am a parent myself, and I can tell you, the worst punishment anyone could ever place upon me would be to take my daughter from me. Hopefully, by not being allowed to see his children, your father will straighten up his act. If he can’t, it might be best for him to not be a part of your life, because your health and safety come before anything else. It also helps to talk about these things. Talk to your mom, to your brothers, they are going through the same thing you are, and sharing your feelings might help you realize that you are not alone (and it might help them realize that they need to find ways to make this less difficult for you). I really hope things work out for you.

I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I know it must be a difficult time. There is really no way of stopping it, only healing from it. The best thing you can do is realize that in no way are you at fault. Your parents are adults and it is their responsibility to care for you, and at this time your father is incapable of doing so. I am a parent myself, and I can tell you, the worst punishment anyone could ever place upon me would be to take my daughter from me. Hopefully, by not being allowed to see his children, your father will straighten up his act. If he can't, it might be best for him to not be a part of your life, because your health and safety come before anything else. It also helps to talk about these things. Talk to your mom, to your brothers, they are going through the same thing you are, and sharing your feelings might help you realize that you are not alone (and it might help them realize that they need to find ways to make this less difficult for you). I really hope things work out for you.

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