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******My Mind is telling me this******

Im thinking that i can’t have children,:( I really love children i do,about 4-5 mounths trying to have….

Any advice???please be honestly..
Thanks

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~LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 241 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

4-5 months is nothing, you can still get pregnant, sometimes it take a while and sometimes it happens right away so don’t start fretting yet.
Doctors will only take you seriousley if you have been trying for a year+

Maybe have a look at your lifstyle and your partners, can you change a few things to help your chances?
Are you both healthy?
Do one or both of you need to loose some weight?
Are you eating healthily?
Do either of you smoke?

These are just a few things that can hinder your chances.
You can also take pre pregnancy vitamins like folic acid, you can take them before you get pregnant and up to 3 months into the pregnancy.

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3 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

no we dont smoke and we both ok healty.

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~LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 241 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
no we dont smoke and we both ok healty.

Then just keep trying!

Also try to find out when you are ovulating as you have more chance in getting pregnant at that time, you can buy kits to tell you when you are but most women ovulate about 12-14 days after a period so maybe try a little more in that time!

Goodluck

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 827 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

Thanks alot.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

haha wrong reply..

but Goodluck For your baby dont stop trying god will listen to you

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Anonymous #
3 months, 4 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

Thanks for your help. i really was going to suicde my self..beacuse i tough that i was not going to have the chance to be a good mum.

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Thanks for your help. i really was going to suicde my self..beacuse i tough that i was not going to have the chance to be a good mum.

If you do that, you will NEVER be a parent. Keep trying; but even if it doesn’t happen, don’t do anything you can’t undo.

And do be willing to look into adoption if you find out you aren’t able to have them naturally for some reason. There are thousands of children in the world needing a loving parent.

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3 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

my own uncle tried for 6-7 years & eventually my cousin bore…she’s realy cute& lovely…every one including myself thought they won’tsucceed but we were all wrong….
so stay strong & don’t kill urself…i’m sure everything will be ok soon!!! ;)

Anonymous wrote:
Thanks for your help. i really was going to suicde my self..beacuse i tough that i was not going to have the chance to be a good mum.

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Anonymous #
3 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

thanks all for your help.
really with your opionis help me alot..

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Anonymous #
3 months, 4 weeks ago (4 hours, 48 minutes after post)

:)

Anonymous wrote:
thanks all for your help.
really with your opionis help me alot..

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