when they find a place, just tell them its too small for you and you need more room. make em keep looking for the perfect place that doesnt exist and eventually theyll be like dood, youre out.
Yeah, but I need to find somewhere in the next two weeks
Keep looking for your own place on the side.
Or you could just start getting really specific.. draw up lists on who will clean the bathrooms and on what days.. and how many scrubs of the toilet are required..
They’ll think you’re a pain in the *** and will try to get out of living with you.
or, despite how AMAZING our advice is, you could always just tell them you cant afford it.
i was going to suggest, just tell them the truth
you cant afford it
how would you feel if they reduced the room in price?
At the end of the day if it’s not suitable or affordable for you then don’t do it. Just tell her the truth and how you feel about this tiny room and higher fees. If she is your friend then she will understand.
evansent :) wrote:
i was going to suggest, just tell them the truth
you cant afford it
how would you feel if they reduced the room in price?
My friend’s already offered to put £5 a week towards whoever’s in the smaller room, but that’s still higher than what I was hoping for.
lesson 1 : think more before you say something stupid :P
anywayz :D
just tell her that you really want to move with her but cant afford the pay and stuff… she should understand if she doesnt she’s stupid ^_^
wait i rephrase the last sentence :D
she isnt stupid, she is self centered ^_^
what are you going to do if you cant find a room for £65 in two weeks?
is there anyway you can borrow it from somewhere?
also your friends sound great&obviously want you to be part of there lives :)
evansent :) wrote:
what are you going to do if you cant find a room for £65 in two weeks?
is there anyway you can borrow it from somewhere?
also your friends sound great&obviously want you to be part of there lives :)
Well that’s just it - I looked through a couple of housing websites last night and there were loads
Dorian wrote:
evansent :) wrote:
what are you going to do if you cant find a room for £65 in two weeks?
is there anyway you can borrow it from somewhere?
also your friends sound great&obviously want you to be part of there lives :)
Well that’s just it - I looked through a couple of housing websites last night and there were loads
loads of £65 or £80 ones?
evansent :) wrote:
Dorian wrote:
evansent :) wrote:
what are you going to do if you cant find a room for £65 in two weeks?
is there anyway you can borrow it from somewhere?
also your friends sound great&obviously want you to be part of there lives :)
Well that’s just it - I looked through a couple of housing websites last night and there were loads
loads of £65 or £80 ones?
£65 ones
If these guys are your friends, they won’t want you to get yourself into debt or be penniless just to meet the rent on a room that’s really too small! Just tell your friend that it’s all too expensive, that you want to live with her but your maximum ceiling is £65 (or £70 or whatever you can manage to compromise about) and ask if you can come to a deal - it’s fine to look after yourself, just make sure that she knows you don’t want to mess her about and you understand how difficult it’s been for her.
Trust me, it’s better than living with people you resent!!
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sorry to say lv, truth yet again..
tell her thanks but you prefer to get a place of your own
if shes such a great friend*which they sound they are*
they will understand&be happy for whatever reason youve chosen :)
Well, let’s hope so. Cheers guys, just wanted to run this by you :)
no worries,
good luck lv ,im sure things will work out great&
if they dont youve always got us as backup ;)
besides you really need your own place to be able to effectively fapfap your nights away.
courtybubble wrote:
besides you really need your own place to be able to effectively fapfap your nights away.
Well one of these two is a gothic model, so…
that sounds highly depressing.
courtybubble wrote:
that sounds highly depressing.
Ah, but you haven’t seen her Facebook page :P
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It’s cool thanks - I told her last week and I think she’s okay with it. Cheers for the advice!
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