sadness help: i feel like a worthless bum.a couple of hours ago i was happy - Help.com

Why? What has changed?

Please don’t say that. You spoke your heart. Your words, were better than mine. What is wrong???

Unnamed Desire wrote:
you write good stuff you say i do too but i dont

kay, well I don’t know what’s going on here, but I will say this: “In the end, everything is OK. If it’s not OK, then it’s not the end”….so hang in there!

Why would you say that? The mind knows not what the heart feels. Not the same as stupid my friend. Always speak your heart.

Unnamed Desire wrote:
whats wrong is that im stupid

Unnamed Desire wrote:
my mind knows nothing

What do you not know? can you read books or study upon it to give yourself a chance to prove the “i am stupid” voice in your head wrong?

Then you will have no problems following your heart :) Stick with that my friend. You can’t go wrong!

Unnamed Desire wrote:
my mind knows nothing

Unnamed Desire wrote:

EmptySoul wrote:

Unnamed Desire wrote:
my mind knows nothing

What do you not know? can you read books or study upon it to give yourself a chance to prove the “i am stupid” voice in your head wrong?

no if i prove it wrong it makes it right again

what? please dont try to be deep…. i went through and am going through the same crap. A good example would be i sometimes i wonder how stupid i am because i cant play complicated pieces on my piano yet i have only been playing it for a few months. so i instead set goals for myself that i can meet which are still mentally demanding yet i surpass that little voice without letting it always get the best of me.

Unnamed Desire wrote:
i couldnt set a goal for myself i wouldnt accomplish it

………..
how old are you?

I was once 14 - 8 years ago, suddenly i feel older. If you feel this way i recommend talking to your parents and searching for an emotional outlet. I use my piano and i workout (body-build) to get rid of some of the sadness. It doesn’t kill it all but it does help a lot. Your interests will change as you grow i know when i was your age i was tearing apart computers and building pcs/fixing them for my friends. Now i get frustrated when people call me to fix thier computers as its all i do for them XD i should start charging. My point is just find something you enjoy and excel at it.

BTW. Please be careful on the internet as there are some people out there that may mean you harm, you heard this a 1000s of times but i can not overemphasize my hatred and disgust towards pedophiles.

Unnamed Desire wrote:
14

that’s a tough age. Don’t worry, you’ll figure things out and get through it.

Unnamed Desire wrote:
i want to die so if theres any risk bring it on i could care less

I remember feeling the same way. Lexapro became my best friend.

Unnamed Desire wrote:
what is Lexapro?

http://www.lexapro.com/about_lexapro/…

Singer_Scarlett wrote:

Unnamed Desire wrote:
what is Lexapro?

http://www.lexapro.com/about_lexapro/…

shes 14, the product is ment for adults i quote
“Lexapro has been proven in clinical trials to be an effective and well-tolerated prescription medication that improves the quality of life for adults suffering from depressionA disease that affects millions of Americans each year, believed to be caused by an imbalance of certain chemicals in the brain, called neurotransmitters. and generalized anxiety disorder (GAD)An overwhelming sense of apprehension and fear often accompanied by physical symptoms such as tension, sweating, or increased pulse rate. Anxiety symptoms are commonly associated with depression..”

while the mind is developing at such a young age it is best not to feed it medication else the mind my be altered and irreversible damage might occur. Also medications arent the end all be all i personally have only found peril in medication i dont recommend them to anyone especially thoes under 18 and under development.

Saint Johns Wart is a natural Herbal extract it helps with depression, not much but it does and it has NO SIDE EFFECTS. Vitamins and anti oxidants help with depression as well.

EmptySoul wrote:

Singer_Scarlett wrote:

Unnamed Desire wrote:
what is Lexapro?

http://www.lexapro.com/about_lexapro/…

shes 14, the product is ment for adults i quote

while the mind is developing at such a young age it is best not to feed it medication else the mind my be altered and irreversible damage might occur. Also medications arent the end all be all i personally have only found peril in medication i dont recommend them to anyone especially thoes under 18 and under development.

Saint Johns Wart is a natural Herbal extract it helps with depression, not much but it does and it has NO SIDE EFFECTS. Vitamins and anti oxidants help with depression as well.

ummmm….I took lexapro when I was 14. Actually I started when I was 13. And I have a pretty great life, and my mental health is better than it’s ever been. Sometimes we need help to get us out of a really bad slump.

Now, I’m not saying that you should should just start taking lexapro, I’m saying it helped me and this is how I dealt with the situation. Maybe you’d want to consider going to a psychiatrist and having him or her evaluate you? I hope you’re feeling better today by the way.

Sounds like you had a rough night. I am sorry you are feeling this way. After I read your last post, I was surprised to see this one. Is it normal for you to go to such extremes of emotions? I am just wondering if your depression could bi-polar?

Have you been paying attention to the types of thoughts you are having? I have been reading and the next step is to write down those thoughts. Keep a log of your thoughts. Do you think you will do that?

((hug))

what you create in the abscence of joy
is a fear
now what good is fearful thought
what can it acheive if trust is the foundation for hope
think hard
where will this pain lead you but eventually back to a full smile
time is and is the only matter and keeps you in uncertainty
erase that valuable time you spent in doubt
mainly because you will always come around
believe me
once you taste awesome your addicted honey
and rest assured always reason your self back to your former beauty
learn that and be free from that ol fear
erase the inbetween bit
at the very least quicken it

hope you can levitate as fast as you descend
dont know if it makes sense but it is the offering
be thankful/mindful of what you do have
and not what you dont

now as for stupid i for one know quite the contrary dear

because i have spoken to you and understand you to be of rational mind and quite intellengent for your age as one can surmise from your last comment

awwwwww you sad little puppy you,its ok sweety nobody is,the whole of humanity is eronously heading for disaster if we dont collectively diet on smart pills,now to assume your self unwise in a land of irrational logic is a most intellegent conclusion,for only a madmen says hes wise and only a wise man say hes a fool

He who asks is a fool for five minutes, but he who does not ask remains a fool forever.
chinese proverb

thats right because you are smart,smart enough to know your future motive now all you need is to contemplate trusting someone enough to ask,now the question is!!!!
what is the question!!!anyway if it helps you dont get any dumber than me,iam like class x9 ,not to bright ,you know those tee shirts that say im with stupid i thought that was the (support the ukranian peoples immigration demands)you can call me simple but i prefer the term gentle,sweet even better but hey ill take any number of combos haha ,humans will never coexist till pride and self empowerment fade from the ego centric syche that has deceived the masses into believing in there our salvation

The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge, But fools despise wisdom and instruction.

hewbrew proverb

so what im saying is the only true knowledge is that to know of god and of god
for all mans works are in vain
for we are no more refined now than the first global peoples ,still killing still lusting after our own creative power and knowledge which will destroy us all ,consider pollution and the genious of the automobile ,now we have polluted the very air we breath ,so one must ask in hindsight what was considered a modern wonder has brought about our slow demise ,and then theres the whole fuel and oil issue and the multitude of problems that has created ,not to clever me thinks but hey ,what do i know
nothing right
happy being dumb

anyway maybe that all went over your head,maybe not ,heres the thing ,intelligence is not based on just being smart

wikipedia defines it as
quote
“Intelligence is an umbrella term used to describe a property of the mind that encompasses many related abilities, such as the capacities to reason, to plan, to solve problems, to think abstractly, to comprehend ideas, to use language, and to learn. There are several ways to define intelligence. In some cases, intelligence may include traits such as creativity, personality, character, knowledge, or wisdom. However there is no agreement on which traits define the phenomenon of intelligence agreed upon by a majority across the various concerned disciplines

consider the genious of “eistein”
yet the greatest so called scientist on the planet gave us the recipe for nuclear hell ,antimatter devices ,a nu clear terror the nuclear bomb ,the dumb @%#*
so dumb and genious are all inclusive cannot create what is not

for we see even ego pride fear can disable logic destoying all wisdom and common sense and confusion may lead to even more ignorant knowledge

nothing is certainty
so i consider nothing is knowlegdeable but the knowledge of god

but if you are not into the good word so be it ,you can only be chaseing ghost in my eyes
yeh well hope you follow me ,i can confuse many myself even at the peak of my brain active,so yer me dont listen to me haha ,its all just theory right:)cya ,thanks for the invite

http://depression.emedtv.com/lexapro/…

http://www.yourlawyer.com/topics/over…

WARNING ,before you consider such things like lexapro
check the list of side efects before you contemplate using this product ,is it really worth it ,seems to me like you will devlope 10 more new problems whilst useing this drug,and will they be temporary,anyway my opinion ,check it yourself
GOOGLE LEXAPRO HEALTH WARNINGS

deceived the masses into believing in there own salvation ‘'’ my bad