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Um i think i have a kid..

but i cant get near my x nor am i a part of her life any more… aka i don’t know her number or where she is accept for when i see her driving or at the same mall always off in the distance… How do i find out if she has my kid? I saw her in the distance with a baby that looked exactly like me when i was a baby a few times and its age coincides with us being to gether exactly! I have to know if its my baby!!!

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Ask her friends?

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 175 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

get a court order for a DNA test.

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 995 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

courtybubble wrote:
get a court order for a DNA test.

Thats the best,thing i think..
And ask poeple that she know..

Goodluck !

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speedstream offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (51 minutes after post)

She has since changed all her friends, how do i get a court order?

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 175 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (58 minutes after post)

youll need a family lawyer to file a motion in family court. if youve not the money for one, try legal aid.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

Thank you so much! :D

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Welcome

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 175 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

no worries, good luck man.
and remember, if it is your child, youhave legal rights to see the bub, your lawyer should help you out with that too.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

courtybubble wrote:
no worries, good luck man.
and remember, if it is your child, youhave legal rights to see the bub, your lawyer should help you out with that too.

GOOD ONE !!!

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evansent:) offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 738 #
GB | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

why did you&your x split?

if it is your kid then of course you have legal rights
however, there also must be a reason why she doesnt want you around the child :/

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

evansent :) wrote:
why did you&your x split?

if it is your kid then of course you have legal rights
however, there also must be a reason why she doesnt want you around the child :/

Yes,no one ask it..
theres a reason why she dont want you around the child if its your kid.

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speedstream offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (15 hours, 12 minutes after post)

She had a boyfriend she didn’t tell me about…

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

speedstream wrote:
She had a boyfriend she didn’t tell me about…

i see and you leave her? im right or no?

Can be the boyfriend baby not yours..thing well..
how long she been with this guy? and how old is the baby?
Before you talk and take action make search..etc..

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speedstream offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (5 days, 14 hours after post)

The baby looks just like i did as a baby… She “apparently” has been “on and off” with the guy for two years… but she had multiple boyfriends i now realize… Its old enough to coenside with us…

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (6 days, 2 hours after post)

be careful before you say its yours!!

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