Relationships help: my relatinship feels so dead… - Help.com

yea thanks helpbot, wrong post lol.

have you talked to him about this? told him how you feel? asked him why he is the way he is now?
the key to a successful relationship is good communication. you just need to tell him how you feel and find out how he feels and come to a compromise.

Sounds like he may not be ready to take on the role as parent, and compatible mate. It takes two to make any relationship work. He seems to be hiding from his responsibilities by engulfing himself with his playstation games, and avoiding by staying up late etc. Does he work? Does he spend any time at all with his child? Sounds a bit immature. How old is he?

You both have to make an effort to do things together, let him know how he is making you feel for a start, some guys get settled into a routine and forget we still need some attention and to feel special, me and my bf have date night, once a month where we go out and do something we enjoy together, also, have a go on the playstation with him, the couple that plays together stays together

Victoria Sponge wrote:
You both have to make an effort to do things together, let him know how he is making you feel for a start, some guys get settled into a routine and forget we still need some attention and to feel special, me and my bf have date night, once a month where we go out and do something we enjoy together, also, have a go on the playstation with him, the couple that plays together stays together

agreed:)

thanks guys he is 25 and really good with the baby when he tries he works a little a few days now and then since writing this posti have talked 2 him…he says he loves me and realises he needs 2 pull his weight more…so 2 day i have his playstation scart lead hidden we are going on a picnic and he is teaching our daughter how 2 fish…so im hoping 2 day helped thanks 4 all ur help…i realise i was a bit nieve with him

sweet!

i love a good ending :)

Maybe that’s just how he unwinds from work. Take a weekend together.

Thats sweet, seriously tho, I would get a playstation game you could play together so you can unwind together from time to time, my bf loves it when I play nintendo with him

Victoria Sponge wrote:
Thats sweet, seriously tho, I would get a playstation game you could play together so you can unwind together from time to time, my bf loves it when I play nintendo with him

I agree completely! Why do so many women refuse to play video games? It’s really not that bad, you would most likely find a game you like that you both can play. My boyfriend and I LOVE to play video games together. He likes the fact that his lady is not only his lady, but also his best friend that he can actually do FUN things with. Don’t be a square!

i play the playstaion with him all the time im even better than him i love it i just wish it felt a bit more romantic

yea….shooting bloody falling to pieces zombies with bazookas isnt exactly as romantic as a candlelit dinner for two lol

But you’re killing those zombies as a team!! haha