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I am a father of four one of is disabled.

We need to lower our monthly exspences , as well we also need to get into a home thats a ranch on grade or at the most on e step up into it. From mistakes of my youth (first marrage) i have made things hard for us credit wise to obtain a home loan. We all the specialist my sons see’s the gas we buy really cuts into basic needs like food, utilities , clothing… I am not here to beg for anything I work to provide… My wife cant work becuase she has to be home to take care of Adams and my baby daughter. I am at the end of my rope and just need a breath. I need a loan that I can pay back over time… I need to get Adams into a house where his needs can be accomidated and our money wont be thrown away on rent.. Our landlord is unwilling to release us from our lease or improve the dbl wide to accomidate Adams needs.. He will have to have surgery soon and will be in a halo for a year my wife cant carry him and there is 6 steps up to get in the house either door you use and if there was a ramp it wouldnt fit a wheel chair. I am not looking for a hand out just a hand up I can repay. Please if you know anyone or if you can help out let me know.. I am willing to work two jobs if that is possable as well I have to be oncall two week then off call 1 month .. This makes it difficult to find someone willing to hire me for a 2nd job. we tried for food stamps and we make 200 dollars too much for it and they wont consider the fact we spend 400$ a month taking our son to specialist.. If they would look at our exspenses then they would know we need help. But thats the Gov. for ya they will give to those who wonty work and thos that do and struggle they dont help. A woman at the defacs office told my wife to leave me and she could halp her and through child support enforcement she could get most of my money to her. what kind of advice is this from grovernement ?? they really hate families that are together they love single parent families? Anyway this is my prayer that God would send us an angel who would trust us to help us out … I want the chance to pay us out of our troubles .. Also need many prayers for Adams upcoming surgery. Oh We live in Oxford Georgia and are looking for a move to either social circle or loganville … Loganville would get me closer to work and our church please pray for us.

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sorry would have responded but have not had time to get to the library until now so whom ever posted pls dont take me rude.

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