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hey listen!!will ur mom or dad accept ur request??& do u want them 2 not get divorse if yes ask them…but if they don’t care what u want….explain e more then maybe i could help u better

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That’s an issue that your parents are going to have to work out between them. The only thing you can do is hope for the best. In the end, they’re the ones who are gonna have to decide if they are happy together or happy getting divorced. The only thing you can do is remain neutral and try not to take sides because if you do, one or the other is going to resent you or you might end up getting hurt too in the process. Just tell them you hope that they work out their differences whether they stay together or not and that you love both of them. Believe me, it’s probably tearing them apart to have to get a divorce but sometimes that’s what is best for certain relationships. This might be one of them. Sorry but it’s a fact of life.

And please quit double posting with the same issue. Don’t get the Gods, I mean, mods angry at you!

i really don’t know….is their problem really seriously??i mean no hope 4 their relationship gets better?!!

Yo! my mum and dad have never got a divorce XD too pricey for us but they have separated. same thing really. they live in different houses, they each have a partner. my dad even had a kid with his girlfriend.

So i kinda know what your going through. the first and most important thing i have to tell you is DONT FORCE THEM TO BE TOGETHER BECAUSE YOU WANT THEM TO BE. they are adults, they can choose for themselves. if they stay together just because of their kids it would probably make your childhood?teenagerhood horrible. if your parents are unhappy it will shine through when they talk to you.

If they decide to get a divorce tell them that you wont live without seeing the parent that dosent get custody. make sure you make arrangements that you get to see both your parents on a regular basis.

Im sorry you have to go through this. but it happens, loads of families split up. and sometimes its better if they do than living unhappily