I am a girl who like her friend (also a girl) and she knows im ya know…ha…yea well she acts like she is somettimes too what do I do? - Help.com



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I am a girl who like her friend (also a girl) and she knows im ya know…

ha…yea well she acts like she is somettimes too what do I do?

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l1mit3d offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

well depends on your confidence… if your a confident person speak to her about it if your not just give signs that your intrested in her and see wa she does

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Well you should ask her about what sexuality is, and if she says she’s into girls like you are, try something; however, if she says she’s straight, then don’t try anything. Well…actually, how much do you value your friendship with this girl? You should take that into consideration too

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JeremiahC offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

Asking her what her sexuality is seems like that would be about as awkward as straight out telling her you like her. A better approach would be to strike up a conversation about, perhaps, a celebrity you find attractive and see what she says. She already knows you like girls, so she won’t think the conversation is odd, but this will more fluidly take you into a conversation about who she finds attractive.

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (56 minutes after post)

JeremiahC wrote:
Asking her what her sexuality is seems like that would be about as awkward as straight out telling her you like her. A better approach would be to strike up a conversation about, perhaps, a celebrity you find attractive and see what she says. She already knows you like girls, so she won’t think the conversation is odd, but this will more fluidly take you into a conversation about who she finds attractive.

lol, I didn’t mean like go up to her and be like “Are you a lesbian to???” hahaha

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JeremiahC offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (58 minutes after post)

Singer_Scarlett wrote:

JeremiahC wrote:
Asking her what her sexuality is seems like that would be about as awkward as straight out telling her you like her. A better approach would be to strike up a conversation about, perhaps, a celebrity you find attractive and see what she says. She already knows you like girls, so she won’t think the conversation is odd, but this will more fluidly take you into a conversation about who she finds attractive.

lol, I didn’t mean like go up to her and be like “Are you a lesbian to???” hahaha

I assumed you didn’t mean that, but some people will try to do that. :)

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour after post)

JeremiahC wrote:

Singer_Scarlett wrote:
JeremiahC wrote:
Asking her what her sexuality is seems like that would be about as awkward as straight out telling her you like her. A better approach would be to strike up a conversation about, perhaps, a celebrity you find attractive and see what she says. She already knows you like girls, so she won’t think the conversation is odd, but this will more fluidly take you into a conversation about who she finds attractive.

lol, I didn’t mean like go up to her and be like “Are you a lesbian to???” hahaha

I assumed you didn’t mean that, but some people will try to do that. :)

lol, it’s all good :) I admire people who can be upfront like that though. Not saying it’d be the best approach for this situation though haha.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

I’m worried about her right now.

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dumbie! offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

jokingly talk about if she’s bicurious or whatnot.

dude, my friend did that to me, and we ended up togther. i had just broke up with some azzhole guy and she was said something along the lines of you could try girls or something. anyway, it all worked out.

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JeremiahC offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

xxbella_ierox wrote:
I’m worried about her right now.

why?

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