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i am a gal…

and i like a gal(tomboy)…i don like any other gals other than her…so i am not a lesbien…but many ppl says i am a lesbien..and i am freakin hurt…ppl see me as if i am a monster…. why is it rong for a gal to love a gal?..is it a crime?…i dunno…i feel lost…i wanna strt slashin agin…

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Screw what everyone else says.

“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” ~Dr. Seuss

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mz.mo offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Singer_Scarlett wrote:
Screw what everyone else says.

“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” ~Dr. Seuss

heck ya!!!! my fav quote i ws just gonna say it too

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mz.mo offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

dont slash! its not gonna help

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JeremiahC offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Singer_Scarlett wrote:
Screw what everyone else says.

“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” ~Dr. Seuss

That quote’s on my myspace page. I’ve never seen anyone else quote it. :)

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red1263 offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Everyone has a right to be with the one they love

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angel9113 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

You are not lesbian, you just have a girl crush… wait until the right guy comes along and you will forget her.

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mz.mo offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

JeremiahC wrote:

Singer_Scarlett wrote:
Screw what everyone else says.

“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” ~Dr. Seuss

That quote’s on my myspace page. I’ve never seen anyone else quote it. :)

its on mine too~

red1263 wrote:
Everyone has a right to be with the one they love

its true and your young you will feel this way about many people… girls or guys doesnt matter as long as they treat you with respect and your happy.

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

JeremiahC wrote:

Singer_Scarlett wrote:
Screw what everyone else says.

“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” ~Dr. Seuss

That quote’s on my myspace page. I’ve never seen anyone else quote it. :)

haha, I love that quote, it’s one of my favorite :)

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JeremiahC offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

To begin with, Lesbians are not monsters. But if you say you only like the one girl, then I’m assuming you like guys too, so you’re bi.

Not that any of these labels matter.

Perhaps the hardest thing in the world is to realize you are not part of the mainstream, but as you continue through life you’ll realize more and more that this concept of ‘normal’ is a silly figment that applies to very few, if any people.

You different. So is everybody else.

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

angel9113 wrote:
You are not lesbian, you just have a girl crush… wait until the right guy comes along and you will forget her.

Hmmm….a girl crush? You could be bi, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Well this is a tough age too because I’m assuming you’re a teenager, and at this age it’s normal to be unsure of things. Kids are quite vulnerable at that age, and maybe the fact that people constanly telling you you’re a lesbien (which I think is ridiculous) might be getting to your head.

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JeremiahC offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

How old are you if you don’t mind me asking?

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jojolu1 offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Buffalo Grove, IL, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

You are not a monster. Lots of people have phases in thier life when they feel they like someone of the same gender.

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JeremiahC offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

…she’s not signed on anymore.

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 175 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

well, its not a crime, and it doesnt make you a monster, but if you are in a relationship with a girl, aka a lesbian relationship, then, by definition you are at that time a lesbian.
but dont let a label define you. just love who you want to love and forget about the douchebags who cant handle that.

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mallini offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (5 hours, 59 minutes after post)

JeremiahC wrote:
How old are you if you don’t mind me asking?

i am 15 yrs old…

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 hours, 56 minutes after post)

mallini wrote:

JeremiahC wrote:
How old are you if you don’t mind me asking?

i am 15 yrs old…

Did u know that according to some magazine I read somewhere, 40% of girls your age to 18 have kissed a girl? I’m not even gonna lie, I totally had a girl crush once. But then it went away…but at that time people I had just broken up with my boyfriend, and I started telling ppl I was a lesbien so the other guys would leave me alone (I don’t advise doing that to anyone x.x). So you have lesbien tendencies, don’t worry, it’ll pass.

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mallini offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

Singer_Scarlett wrote:

mallini wrote:
JeremiahC wrote:
How old are you if you don’t mind me asking?

i am 15 yrs old…

Did u know that according to some magazine I read somewhere, 40% of girls your age to 18 have kissed a girl? I’m not even gonna lie, I totally had a girl crush once. But then it went away…but at that time people I had just broken up with my boyfriend, and I started telling ppl I was a lesbien so the other guys would leave me alone (I don’t advise doing that to anyone x.x). So you have lesbien tendencies, don’t worry, it’ll pass.

ok thanx alot…

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