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ok i have a pregnant soon to be wife.

She as 2 kids be another man. He is bad news pedo and women beater. any ways im scared about having this baby with her and i know i should be talking to her about this but she wont talk about it. She almost never talks when i have a problem. So now im laying in bed next to her shes sound asleep and im asking strangers for help. Im afriad my baby will end up building a bond with the other 2 kids father. Im afraid my child will call me by my name instead of daddy, as the other 2 do. The other kids are becoming more like there actual father and at 6 and 7 are hitting random people and lying breaking things. I dont want my kid to follow their footsteps. any help please.

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ashdewar offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
Calgary, AB, CA | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

tehehe i can promise you that isn’t going to happen children know who there father is before there even born they even know the sound of your voice they here it from the womb ^-^ that kid is yours and your its father and you bother know it. and about the other children do they stay with there father or with you two?

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 173 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

man these are pretty normal thoughts for a first time daddy to be havin.
its totally ok to think this, but let me reassure you, that these worries you have will not come true!

of COURSE its going to call you daddy, the kid doesnt even need to see the other guy, and….his kids should not be anywhere near him either if he is what you say. has his behaviour been reported to the police?

Kids do have somewhat of a genetic predisposition to become like their parents-but theyre not going to turn out like him just because hes their dad. it is all to do with HOW their behaviour is managed, so if you are having issues with them, i would suggest you get some help with their behaviour NOW before A, it gets any worse, and B, the new child gets to see it and be influenced by it, because it WILL be influenced.
ever heard of supernanny? shes got some pretty good books out on managing bad behaviour, and ill bet her books are in a whole section of other books on the same topic.

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