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I like 2 guys!

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Ok. I liked this guy and I thought he was the best guy I could ever meet (lets call him guy #1). But now my old childhood boyfriend from my old country moved here and I fell inlove with him again…(Lets call him #2). He’s such a gentleman. He holds doors for me, etc….
But i still really like #1 and he liked me back even though we were NOT officially a couple. Now its summer, #1’s in Hawaii and I’m still here with #2 came and I’m really crazy about him and every day I see him and I cant wait. #2’s going to my school. His family loves me. But I feel like part of me still likes #1… What should I do?

Sorry if this doesn’t make sense…..!!!

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carpe_noctem offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

huh. if i were in your situation, it would be between hugh jackman and johnney depp. thank god i am me… well, i once kinda sorta not at all totally liked this one guy. i had noooo idea if i did or didnt like him. i made a list. pro’s and con’s. he’s now my bf. think of the future; who’s going to be there for you? how long do you want to stay with them? how long do they want to stay with you? would they stay with you for that long? would you be able to deal with a breakup? there are countless things to think about, so take your time. if you are not ready to choose for fear of regret, dont choose yet. try taking time away from this problem. have girls night, go camping, read a book. sometimes coming back to a problem after taking such a break help you see it at a new angle. key advice: take your time. (ever read the georgia nicolson diaries?)

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Sugar Girl offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

Thanks so much!!!! I dont think #1 will stay with me that long because he changes alot… But I’m not sure how #2 acts because I haven’t seen him in 3 years. But I’m thinking #2 is better… I’ll see at school.
Any more help?

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yeah offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (9 hours, 20 minutes after post)

do them both and see which one has a bigger pole!

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Sugar Girl offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (12 hours, 10 minutes after post)

Im to young to do that.

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