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I am not well emotionally.

I have had two failed relationships. My studies did not go as well as I expected. My best friend left me last year. Now, I am in a good and stable job but I feel very void inside. I like a girl and I have tried many times to go out with her. I have asked her many times to accompany me to some event but she has always refused. :( Now, I feel very bad due to all this. I don’t have friends I can talk my heart out. I usually always stay alone in this city.

I am trying hard to make myself cheerful. I listen to good music, go out alone and remain cheerful for a few hours. But then again I feel very sad and depressed. How to become happy again? I want to be cheerful and happy. I want to be in a good relationship again. Please help me. :(

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fennec offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

wow… ouch… anyway, the best way to get rid of this , well is to shake it off. hit the local pubs and meet new people im sure the city is big enough to have more than one person who shares your interests. and staying home never helps, so take a chance.

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redletterprin offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (9 hours, 23 minutes after post)

A pub is the worse place to look for new friends! Try going to church / gym or more healthy environment! It will suit your lifestyle better. Good Luck. Ps. Forget about the other girl.

God Bless!

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (12 hours, 2 minutes after post)

join the gym, find a hobby, don’t you have friends and family you can spend some time with?

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infinity offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (14 hours, 58 minutes after post)

No, I have a few friends here but I can’t speak my heart out to them. They are not my very close friends. My family is not in this city.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (16 hours, 55 minutes after post)

Run. Run a marathon if you have to. Take all your emotions and focus them into something that will benefit you. Running is a great sport when you are emotionally unstable because it doesn’t just exhaust you physically, but it causes endorphins to course through you and actually make you feel GOOD. If you are as sad as you think you are, give it a try. You can even think about this girl while you run if you must, just don’t forget to channel your thoughts into your exercise. After some time you will feel incredible and if you keep it up you will have a sweet body! Cheer up my friend, you are not alone. Someone you don’t even know is thinking about you right now, and I will be praying for you :)

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