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I just moved in with my boyfriend.

Its in a new city and i dont really know anyone except his family. I work but no one at my work is my age. I want to meet people and make friends but i dont know where to start. I have a car, but im not going to college till next year. Im 19.. please give me some ideas hehe

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patrix offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

are there any places all the people your ago go? otherwise doesn’t your bf have some friends that have gf’s

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 142 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Join a gymnasium and start working out. Not only will you meet new people but you will stay in shape.

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justsimpleinf offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

where are you from…..

what do you like to get into

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midnight_star0 offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Yeah he does and i get along with them fine.. its just they are all his age (24-25) and im 19 lol so i kinda feel alone :(

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JeremiahC offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Myspace and other such site have features where you can search for people in your area. That’s how I met people when I moved to a new city.

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patrix offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

yea the gym idea is good. you need to find something that you will attend regularly so you’ll see the same people, then eventually you’ll start taking. Any night classes you could take? You could volunteer, those people are always friendly

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 142 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Volunteer at a soup kitchen

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JeremiahC offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
Volunteer at a soup kitchen

Meet homeless people your age. :)

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 142 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

JeremiahC wrote:

littlenick wrote:
Volunteer at a soup kitchen

Meet homeless people your age. :)

It might give you a new perspective in life.

Also volunteer at your local library to read to blind people and children.

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patrix offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

I meant something funner, but whatever you like is good

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JeremiahC offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

What kinds of things do you like?

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 142 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

If you ever get really bored and have no one to talk to, go to your local Walmart and put your picture on all the milk cartons. Then wait outside for somebody to recognize you. That’s a way to get to know people and get them to talk to you.

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JeremiahC offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
If you ever get really bored and have no one to talk to, go to your local Walmart and put your picture on all the milk cartons. Then wait outside for somebody to recognize you. That’s a way to get to know people and get them to talk to you.

lmfao

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midnight_star0 offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Seriously.. the gym idea is good. Thanks! As for the smart comments its not really nice or helpful. Being in a big city knowing only my boyfriend is very scary and ive come from a big family im not use to being by myself. Thanks

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JeremiahC offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

What city is it?

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midnight_star0 offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

We live about 45 minutes from Philadelphia

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 142 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

You’re going to be just fine! Don’t worry about it. As far as the smart comments, I’m just trying to make you smile. Sounds like from time to time you will come here when you have a free moment when you think you might be a bit lost or lonely and share it with us. We don’t go anywhere and we are always here to make people like you smile and maybe worry less about their situations. You are going to be just fine! Now just go out there and face the world with a huge smile and a positive attitude. Don’t fret. You are going to meet many new people. I see marvelous and terrific new people in your future!

Good luck!!!

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JeremiahC offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

JeremiahC wrote:
What kinds of things do you like?

You didn’t answer this. Doing what you like is the best way to find people who like similar things.

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midnight_star0 offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

I like skiing and hockey games? lol Its what i get for being born canadian

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 142 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

Make sure you eat a real original Philly cheesteak sandwich!

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JeremiahC offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

ahh. Then I’m thinking the gym idea really is going to be the best for you. Winter’s not too far off. You could look into joining a hockey team.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)
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