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Is he my Soul Mate?

The first time I met him was when I was around 2. I immediately had this feeling but I didn’t know what it was (I was two!) We were great friends for six years and we kissed each other on the cheek a lot. Then when I was 7. I had to move away. I cried because I thought I would miss all my friends.
But now I look back at those times. My other friends were never really nice. I got through it all because of that guy! Its been A LOT of years but I still remember him and miss him…
A few days ago, a miracle happened that I never would of expected! He is moving to where I live. He’s going to my school and he’s my neighbor. He stills remembers me and I still have 10 days before school starts and I’m with him (and his family) every single day. We have a great time and I dream about him every night. Do you think its fate? Are we ment to be together or am I just lucky? We are not a couple…. yet. lol.

P.S. Im only in Middle school.

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coffeefire 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (1 minute after post)

you’re very young, don’t put such high expectations on it. however, be friends, which is the key to a good relationship. let nature run its course. i met my husband when i was 4…we were friends our whole lives…lived thousands of miles apart…and finally married when i was 28 and he was 31 :) let fate happen!

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Sugar Girl 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (7 minutes after post)

coffeefire wrote:
you’re very young, don’t put such high expectations on it. however, be friends, which is the key to a good relationship. let nature run its course. i met my husband when i was 4…we were friends our whole lives…lived thousands of miles apart…and finally married when i was 28 and he was 31 :) let fate happen!

We are the same age. just 2 months different. We are the best of friends! He’s such a gentleman. Holds doors for me and pulls out chairs. I know he will always be there for me, he’s been there my whole life. He’s super trust worthy. (unlike the other cheating guys I dated! grrr) Thank you for the great advice! I’ll let it be.

by the way, this other guy still likes me and I loved him a lot but now that my “old best friend,boyfriend” is back I just don’t like him any more…

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coffeefire 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (9 minutes after post)

like i said. fate. be friends. be good good friends…..let things happen ..good luck :)

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Sugar Girl 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (9 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
You’re only in middle school. Enjoy this infatuation and puppy love while it lasts. Nobody is your soul mate yet. lol

But… I really like him and in my school you start to date when your in around grade 4

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coffeefire 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (10 minutes after post)

i stilll think you’re rather young to be dating :) and you wouldn’t want to spoil your friendship would you? you can be good friends without dating….and if he’s such a gentleman then he will respect you more for the fact that you feel you’re both too young right now

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (19 minutes after post)

I say LEt your heart Tell you. You dont need the question out in the public eye. If its going to happen its going to happen. Dont force love, Love has many ways of being and showing its self. Let the love find you two. Dont push or love breaks. Soul mates im sry is just another way of saying should we date.. When you no that you can spend the rest of your life with some one for good and or bad it hits you. Your a kid love .. for no enjoy jsut being a kid. You only get one shot. But if the moment comes dont pass it up. Just dont push the moment.

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Sugar Girl 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (27 minutes after post)

coffeefire wrote:
i stilll think you’re rather young to be dating :) and you wouldn’t want to spoil your friendship would you? you can be good friends without dating….and if he’s such a gentleman then he will respect you more for the fact that you feel you’re both too young right now

Thats the part I’m not at all worried about. We agreed when we were 7 that if we ever saw each other again and we dated and broke up we would ALWAYS still be friends. and we both still agree with that agreement. ok, I might be too young but, have you ever felt that everyone is telling you your too young but you know your not. Anyway, the point is we will always be friends and always be there for each other!

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coffeefire 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (28 minutes after post)

exactly…good luck, i hope it works out :)

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Sugar Girl 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (35 minutes after post)

thanks. I’ll tell you guys how it works out! :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (37 minutes after post)

the feeling you had when you were two was probably crappin your pants darlin.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (38 minutes after post)

oki sugar girl, good luck :) x

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Sugar Girl 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (38 minutes after post)

thanks

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (40 minutes after post)

courtybubble wrote:
the feeling you had when you were two was probably crappin your pants darlin.

no! no way. It was the feeling of falling in love I just didn’t know it because i was 2.

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bobosnickums 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (41 minutes after post)

yea no. you dont fall in love at two, and its actually virtually impossible to remember feeling back then let alone the actual memory due to the nature of our brain degrading memories.
it was a poo.

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Sugar Girl 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (43 minutes after post)

no! because I remember that memory and after I didn’t do a poo. People these days

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