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This is, for lack of a better word, stupid but I’m

a junior in high school and my girlfriend broke up with me two weeks ago because she thought that we didn’t have the same feelings for each other (aka she didn’t like me anymore). It’s been two weeks and I still can’t get her out of my head now matter how many times I tell myself that she isn’t interested in me. I would start looking for someone else, but there just isn’t anyone I’m interested in….this sucks and any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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JoJo offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (26 minutes after post)

That is not stupid or anything close to it. It is however pretty normal. I think you need to realize that you are better off without a girl who didn’t love you, she could have been more cruel and cheated on you and not break up with you. Also realize the good times you had together and appreciate that but also realize that she had faults and you can find someone else that is just as wonderful and who will love you too. Spend a lot of time with friends right now.

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Changedgirl offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
CA | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 hour, 58 minutes after post)

2 weeks? It takes a lot longer than that to get over someone you really cared about. I am so sorry that this happened to you, but the best thing to do when you are trying to get over someone is to throw yourself into you work/hobbies/whatever you enjoy. Go out for drinks with friends, try getting an A in your hardest class, do something totally fun! Once you start concentrating on yourself, you will slowly start to forget, and may even meet a new girl in the process. Keep a positive attitude and you will pull through. Good luck!

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

more fishs in the sea

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

that means that she is not the one and you should look for the one that you love. hang out relax take a chill pill and find a better one. you can do so much better then that.

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