Love help: How do I get my ex boyfriend back. - Help.com

You can try Epiks suggestion and you can pursue him, but you can not force him to come back to a relationship that he does not want to be in.

It takes a little while for people to answer on this site sometimes. Are you going to talk to your ex?

You might be scaring him off by pursuing him so much. Back off and just hang out with friends for a while. Give him some time.

You shouldn’t need a boyfriend to be happy. Nobody should need anybody to be happy. The reason questio is saying to flirt with other boys is that it makes him think your happy, and happy people are exteremely attractive. The sexest thing a woman can wear is a smile.

Good line ndn!

why were you asking if anyone talking to you about this is black?

I’m sorry, were you saying people don’t like you because you’re black or because you’re white and go to a black school?

heather you have the power to be happy without anyone else’s approval or whatever anyone else does or thinks. You and only you have this power and right now you are giving that power up to someone that doesn’t want it. Take that power back and be happy. You should love yourself first.

(that smile thing.. I really wasn’t thinking “only a smile”)

talk to him and tell him how you feel, be open and honest and work thru your problems

Who broke up with who?

Why would race matter? Love knows no boundaries.

I don’t he broke up with you over you flirting with someone. It might just an excuse for him to break up with you. Im not trying to be mean, but gotta face the facts. You can’t force or make someone love you. It’s not how love works.

In any case, I wish you the best,
Steve

GET OVER IT there are more in the ocean and i can promise hes not the one your going to merry anyway.

who me?

if so what am i sapose to say lol

i like my ex boyfriend alot.ive told him several times i love him he said to me he hates me.he thinks im mad coz i keep phoning him will he come back to me? do you think he loves me?

courtney77fear wrote:
I am 30 yrs old. I broke up with a guy in October 2006. I still have feelings for him. It is weird our problems are not resolved. He calls me or I call him. I played hard to get last year and he chased me big time. He calls me and says he misses me or he wants to see me and I do the same. I am confused. When I am with him I feel like it is like old times. He holds me tight, we have fantastic chemistry and we are the fun couple. I have a blur of why we broke up–He is 35 and not sure about commitment. I really love him but I cannot keep on getting hurt. Please help.

Why did you guys break up? You have to know the source of the problem in order to solve it. If he is scared of commitment, then he is obviously not ready for marriage. Be smart and look for signs. Does he seem serious about you, or does it seem like he is there only for fun?

Hey girl!

Of course I could go and tell you to forget about him, but hey, that’s your choice to make.

If you are really serious about wanting him back, I am positive that you CAN win him back, BUT..

Yes there is a pretty big BUT involved. There ARE some very good psychological trics you can use on almost any ex boyfriend or ex husband to get him back, even when he says he never wants to see/hear from you again.

The question is, do you REALLY want him back, even if it means you’ll have to use tricks and mindgames on him to get him back?

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Best of luck!