ok i have a problem that wont leave me i cant forget
about her it bothers me so much and i dont want to be a pain to her but it turned out to be that way and this whole thing is so twisted so if you have ever had problems ware a girl has taken every thing the wrong way please post your storys and suggestions on how i can fix my own and your problems with girls or a girl i only want things right again.
so my story goes like this this girl call her A. she once had a crush on me and i had one on her it lasted for a long time because she never came out to me and i was afraid to say any thing to her well last year freshmen year i started to talk to her and hang out for once well i also got in with a bad crowd and i thought maybe a bit of weed and alcohol will help me be more talkative with her but i learned it only made every thing worse and now i have been pretty shur she hates me and thinks im creepy only after i had got upset because the guy she was going out with i new very well and i think he new i liked her and i knew his intention s he once was like a brother to me well i try ed to warn her about him and when i got to angry at him i tryed to calm it and make me happy again with alcohol and weed. it made it worse i lost control of my emotions and showed up at her house drunk at 11 wanting to warn her of her boy friend call him L . who was saying bad thing s about her and to say sorry for being so annoying when they were together because i didn’t trust him and saw how he treated his ex s. well she took it as creepy especially after calling her while drunk and stoned losing my emotions and i couldn’t get rid of the depression. well about 5 months later after trying and almost being able to forget about her i get a call from her on the day of my birth day seconds after blowing out the candles and she had crossed my mind at that moment and i didnt pick up because i didn’t want to be rude and it shocked me! what were the odds of that happening? well on the way home i get a text from a good friend i trust saying she told him she had a secret crush on me. but how she had to hate me for what i had done did he mean once had a crush? i could believe that but still? and than the next day after talking to a friend of hers and mine i told him she just hates me and he said ( no she doesn’t hate you she loves you but with an exception) WHAT DOES THAT MEAN! she acts like she hates me what is going on i need to know what to do? should i talk to her what if i make it worse ? what if she wont listen? can i say it straight its so hard to say to her!
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