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I need help.
Around 8 months ago I had my boyfriend move in with me and my kids. We went out for a year before he moved in. I really felt things were going well. He has changed since he moved in. My close friends have said I’ve gone to hell and back in giving him chances. I really have tried SO hard. I am going to ask him to go to counselling. If he won’t do that, I’m going to have to ask him to move out. How the heck do you do that? He has a house, that he rents. He’d have to give his renter 1 months notice. I don’t know how I will live with him for a month knowing he’s leaving. He can be VERY childish and make living with him very uncomfortable, which I KNOW he will do cause he will be bitter. I know it will be hell. I don’t want, most of all, to put my kids through the strain of this either. If he won’t go to counselling and this ends. How do I do this? He has no where else to go, so what do I do for this month? My ex and I get along very amicably, the kids spend part of the week with him and part with me… don’t know if that might help any of you in helping me with this. I’m so desperate… I just don’t know what to do.
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