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How can I tell my dad to slow down and listen to the facts?

That it’s not always the way he thinks it will be? Is it that hard? After so many years? I just wished he could see his problem. And try doing the right thing.

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evansent:) offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 435 #
GB | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

ok, care to tell me more
so i can understand better?

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the_supreme_killa2 offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

i would love to help if its within my power but ur gonna have to be more specific

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

Your father is afraid of something. When he’s afraid, he tries to control, he tries to bully perhaps. You can’t deal with fear with logic. You have to listen to the fears and the stories behind him. He has experiences that are boxing in his thinking process.

When he gets his fears out he may be more able to listen to logic.

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