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I had a crush on a guy for a while last yr.

he sat behind me everyday at lunch. this summer he friend requested me on facebook and we clicked! it hadnt even been 3 days we new eachither and he asked me officially to be his girlfriend i said yes simply because im crazy about him=) 2 days later he came to my show met my family went to dinner with us and we had a blast!….but now its 3 weeks later and i find myself alone. it sucks too because he said i did nothing and he just wasnt ready for a relationship, but i hit me like a baseball bat today that it was to much to soon. i feel awful and i cant stop thinking about him….but my true delema is the fact that i have no idea were i stand with him. he texted me once in three weeks!….iv tried to keep contact just for any reconnection that could happen. Unfortunetly im starting to get the idea finally that its truly over. I wanted a summer fling but i didnt know it was only going to be for 6 days=( i feel stupid and desprate, and most of all hurt. if anyone has advise or has been in this situation id really appriciate your wisdom. I always get the shorter end of the stick when it comes to guys….im just so tired of it=(

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becc offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 67 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months ago (17 minutes after post)

dont worry. guy have used me and everything. some guys are just like that. and maybe he wasnt ready for a relationship. thats ok tho cause theres gonna be alot more guy in your life. so dont worry about this one guy. he will pass.

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ashhleyy offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months ago (24 minutes after post)

thanks=) i like the way that sounds lol, i just have to keep reminding myself.

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becc offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 67 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months ago (25 minutes after post)

:) dont worry you will get another guy. just gotta be positive:D

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jamesbabi offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 month, 4 weeks after post)

i am a guy (at least i think i am lol ) look at the quiet ones we are the nicest i swear ;) good luck anyway have fun

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ashhleyy offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (5 months after post)

haha! hey thanks, ill look into that lol

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