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How would a girl know when a guy really likes her or is just having a fleeting crush?

We don’t know each other and during some college events over the vacation were thrown together. And he looks at me quite abit. When he thinks i’m unaware, when he leaves a place i’m at, he would look at me for some time. Upclose eye contact, he looks away quickly though. He came into the lift once, stood beside me and just looked at me..and when i caught him starin at my face once and looked up, he held my eye contact for awhile before breaking off.

He’s not known to be shy or quiet. But once while i was eating alone, he sat quietly behind me. And when i was told to go help carry some chairs, he leapt up, walked with me to the room and helped me with the things. When i spoke to him though, he was rather subdued and only answered my qns but not saying anything more. =/

He doesn’t touch me or anything but when i accidentally brush past him, he doesn’t move, once at a party he was dancing beside me but didn’t do anything except look at her a few times. Then he abruptly left the place. College term has started, i doubt we share any classes but i’ve him on Facebook. Interested or what? and what should i do? thx!

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beautifulday offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (36 minutes after post)

My question for you is this: Do you even like him?

Because it really only seems like you are interested in having someone like you…but what about turning it into something, do you have enough feelings for him for that to happen?

Of course, you might not even know. But you might have a feel for it.

The first thing to think about is how you feel about them rather than how they feel about you.

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s.wood7 offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 56 minutes after post)

Hmm. I dont know him personally.. its difficult for me to “like” someone i dont know. Interested in him, YES. interested in turning it into something. YES. but i dont know how to go about it. i could show my interest, but i want to know his, so i dont look a fool.

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