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i don’t have too much self confidence around people.

i have a deformed back and chest from surgery. i have been alone for so long and am in so much emotional pain that i can barely function at all. i dont have money for a car being on disability. it just seems like i am going to be alone forever.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

Try meeting people online?

r u in pain?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (40 minutes after post)

hi!
the foremost thing you should do is to think positive. you know your condition, and there is nothing abnormal as such with it..having a surgery is so common these days, you are lucky you are up and working, at least physically, so many people i know have to go through surgeries every month and the cost which they cant support and hence have to live in pain all through their lives. at least you have money to sustain yourself, you have a life to LIVE! you have to find more people like you, alike your mentality, go find clubs online, make friends and talk. it is’nt simple i know but many are out there in the same mental as you wanting friends, go online, search the directory and find people to share your life with!

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (50 minutes after post)

Try meeting people in a similar situation.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (3 hours after post)

ok then.
i posted a craigslist ad.
it took me forever to write it cuz i am in pain.
do you think i wrote it ok?
any suggestions?

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anonymouss offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 3 minutes after post)

oh here is the url btw
http://sfbay.craigslist.org/scz/m4w/1…

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (7 hours, 55 minutes after post)

suggestion: remove the word “dork”

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (7 hours, 59 minutes after post)

Actually I don’t think it will work at all. I changed my mind. Ask a friend or family member to set you up with someone.

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