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i found this really cool guy online.

i live in manhattan and he lives in queens. we have really only been talking for a night and he seems really nice. but i figured it was too good to be true so i checked his face book and he seems pretty ligit. he wants me to meet him in queens. what shud i do?

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spiratec9 online Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

meet with him but have a friend with you on the first meet.
To be on the safe side.

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

a guy friend

spiratec9 wrote:
meet with him but have a friend with you on the first meet.
To be on the safe side.

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Hi_Sai offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

I’d say bring a big strong scary friend. :\ Or a group. And meet in a public place

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spiratec9 online Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Lovestruck wrote:
a guy friend

spiratec9 wrote:
meet with him but have a friend with you on the first meet.
To be on the safe side.

No its not nessasary to have a guy friend another girlfriend is o.k.
Very few guys will try anything with two there.
Its very safe.

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HollowIn offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

Meet for coffee type thing at a place of your choosing, and have a friend call about 20 minutes after your supposed to meet. You have an instant out if you need one, and if you do like they guy you can let someone know where your going to dinner then go get to know a really great guy.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 64 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

how old r u?

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hoops500 offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

im 16 so thats y im a little scared. you always here about people meeting other people online and then getting raped. he dosnt seem like that type of a guy but i like to be sure.

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HollowIn offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

Oh hunny, ya at 16 you definitely wanna have at least one friend with you.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 64 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

Ask your parents

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hoops500 offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

i cant tell my parents, they dont want me to have a boyfriend.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 64 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

hoops500 wrote:
i cant tell my parents, they dont want me to have a boyfriend.

There’s your answer. Don’t meet him. Don’t have a boyfriend. That’s a good idea. Seriously, he’s probably some wacko.

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HollowIn offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

Cell has a point. If you can’t talk to them about this there is no way you should meet anyone from online.

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hoops500 offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (59 minutes after post)

well the thing is i found him. were in a group together on facebook and we started having a conversation in a discussion bored. do u think that justifies me trusting him??

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