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i just recently got engaged to a great guy, we have
been dating for 2 years and it has bee a very rocky 2 years becuase he has 2 children with another girl and he has cheated once with her and i forgave him everything has been going well. just 2 nights ago his ex died tragically in a motorcycle accident which was awful. he isnt handling it well at all and im stuck with what to do or how to act i am very supportive and i understand with all my heart bc of their children and the hisory that they had together i encourae him to be with her family and im here when he needs me becuase i love him and those 2 boys with all my heart. but i feel like im not doing enough or im being selfish bc im being put on the backburner. i idnt know her that well becuase we obviously never got along and i regret so much that i never made peace with her becuase noone deserves to die. im scared of how things are going to end up. if hes going to leave me or just go back to alcoholism im lost and im scared and i cant talk to him about it becuase he has enough to worry about and i feel like im being selfish. but all i want is to be there for him and his kids.
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