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What happened to me lately…

I come back, again, after more than a year (again). since I last login to help.com allot things happened, obviosuly.

I got over my hard break-up. But I had so many problems with men ever since, that I am now reluctant to “be friends” with any male person.

I relocated, I moved to the capital. I got emplyed as a Marketing Assistant and started my masters in Marketing. One month ago I got a better job as a Marketing Specialist at a national company.

I got very career oriented, determinate, eager to do what really matters in life.

I still dont know what matters. I;ve been so busy with work I couldnt go to my grandmother before she died. That bothers me and it changed my perspective about the things that really matter.

I still need help every now and then and Id be happy to talk with you all. I also wanna help you or just share my thoughts and feelings with you.

Hugs,

Kate.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

That’s sad about your grandma. Happened to me too even though I only live an hour away. She slipped into unconsciousness and never woke up so I never got to say goodbye. But I know I’ll see her again one day in heaven.

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SayItsSo offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

welcome back! Many of those things seem like the downfall of creating an adult life.

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kate offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

:) I started to thing of her every time I have problems. This helps me get stronger.
I hope what you learned from your grandmother helped you in many ways.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

Yes. I think of her a lot. She left me money to pay off my mortgage. I think I an a lot like her in personality.

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usurper offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (27 minutes after post)

Nobody knows “what matters” - its all relative.

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zilverknight online Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (35 minutes after post)

Welcome back. Tough I don’t know you but. It’s good to see you are trying to move on. Regarding men. In time slowly you will find your partner. just have to ready for it and not chasing it. try to surround yourself with positive people. So they can bring a smile on your face everyday. and someone to talk to.

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kate offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (37 minutes after post)

@sayitso
yes, it has been quite a downfall. its good I still perceived it, overall, as a series of lessons and tried to make my way UP out of them.

@cell
mortgage… money for it… good…

@usurper
it is relative. everything means something to me; that is what matters, in the end, what it means to me. i guess. relativism ends up in what we are and how we define the world we live in.

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