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My sister had a long term relationship with her boyfriend,and

they broke up before their near marriage,she is so depressed and angry, I dont know how I can help her.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

Suggest doing something fun together to take her mind off things.

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nemo_nemz offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

She is just ignoring all the family,and crying all days,her heart is really broken because she was about to get marry this week.

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SayItsSo offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

send her one a trip…not the honey moon but like a trip to some place nice just u and her!

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zilverknight offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

Let her be. But just be around her at all times. When she opens up a bit take her out. do not force her. Just let her cry.

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nemo_nemz offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

Yes I try to be around her, she is not talking, I dont know how I can help her and it’s bothering me.

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nelsontrosad offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

tell her to call me ;)

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zilverknight offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

just leave her be. try to picture yourself in her shoes. Here you are ready to spend the rest of your life with this person. all is set, stuff been bought, perhaps house, stuff for the house. something new and very bright future. and all of a sudden the rug is pulled from under your feet. all You have been dreaming for months or years all gone!

Well that is how she feels. I have seen woman go completely insane…. suicide, And the most common thing cutting her hair or shaving her head balled.

Just be there for her. a silent bodyguard. she does something out of the ordinary jump in. But let her mourn please.

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nemo_nemz offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

You are definitely right.Being a silent bodyguard is the only thing I can do for her.

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zilverknight offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

Trust me she will appreciate you for doing so. Even when she become nasty just be there. DO NOT leave her side! she will be nasty to you. Just be the silent bodyguard and she will pull trough eventually.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (6 hours, 54 minutes after post)

buy her some chocolate ice cream

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