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I seem to always be upset, its been going on for quite a long time but i don’t know whether its depression because that seem such a big deal.

I just don’t really know what to do because i never seem to be happy anymore and find it really hard to properly enjoy things. I have days where I do enjoy some stuff but generally I’m unhappy. I have batches where i cry a lot too. I just have that feeling where i’m so lost, i don’t know what to do with my life as I’ve left school and started uni but left home at the same time. Maybe it’s because so much has changed within a year but problems seem to be getting more and more on top of each other. Its also quite difficult because my boyfriend and I are always arguing and although I hate it, I love him so much I don’t want anything to happen to us!

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Anonymous #
3 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

same things happenin to me :/
i dont feel myself anymore. and even when i seem happy on the inside, im still well upset and even thoe ive got a boyfriend too who trys to make me happy all the time. im happy, but its never enuf. i dont really have any advice on whats happening to you cause im not quite sure why its happenin to me eiether but. i think that maybe soon something good mite come out of it

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Anonymous #
3 months, 2 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

thats what i tried to think but it has been going on for ages but its getting worse, which is why i wrote this on here because i wanted to know if anyone could help.
I’ve spoken to my boyfriend about it too but he now thinks it might be better to see a doctor because he can’t help me anymore but i don’t want to tell some doctor all my problems, even if they are trained to deal with it!

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Anonymous #
3 months, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

yea, i dont want to go to my doctor, but i have been told i should have councilling, but tbh i dont think thats guna work, i feel miserable all the time and i just always wana cry, and ive never been like this before,you know ive always been strong and i duno whats goin on :/

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ld44 offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

it sounds scary i think thats why but also the fact that don’t you have to pay for things like counseling?, i wouldn’t be able to afford it even if i did go.
I feel the same in that i always want to cry, plus if something little goes wrong its like some huge thing. Although i have some really nice things and i think how unfair is it for me to be like this when other people have nothing, i still cannot smile. I don’t understand it!

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Anonymous #
3 months, 2 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

yea, the most littlest things make me upset and stupid things make me angry, like my laptop being slow stupid things. but ive just been speaking to one of my best friends who i havent seen or spoke to in a while. and speakin to him i just kinda feel a bit better about myself, like he went a way for a while, and now im just wonderin whether ive been upset cause he was gone.. i still dont feel realy happy but i feel a bit better with him there :/

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An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 5 days ago (2 months, 3 weeks after post)

im 25 years old n just wanna die! my whole life ive bin struggling and going thru it but these past two myears just have bin horrible for me. ive bin so called diagnosed with an anxiety disorder and its killing me softly, personally i think its more than that but the doc says its anxiety. ever since june26,2008 ive bin suffering n ive noticed my attitude has changed also. im always upset about everything, the slightest things gets me upset, and live in general has just bin had on me, its like i cant win for lose and i dont know what else to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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