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Hate, Hate, Hate…

.Why is there so much of it?
Why do people hate other people for no good reason.
All i’ve ever done was try, too hard I guess. Try too hard to please everyone else but my self, I know there are so many good people in the world,Somewhere, I atleast have been lucky enough to know a few, but unlucky enough to be stuck working with two people that dispise me for no good reason, In one sense I am lucky to still have a job, which I love doing, but in the other sense the only two people I work with seem to try very hard to make things more difficult than they have to be, particularly for me.
I just don’t get it.
How good is good enough?

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Starlight offline Verified User (5 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Halifax, NS, CA | 3 years, 9 months ago (8 minutes after post)

=( I’m sorry to hear that. It only takes a few bad people to make life miserable.
I don’t know why some people are like that, you should try to avoid being influenced by those people and just ignore them. If you haven’t yet, you could try to figure out what they have againist you, maby by asking them.

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Aurora offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (13 minutes after post)

unfortunatlry with people like that, confrontation equals ultracation.
Times are tough enough as it is, It’s taken all I have left to hold myself together this long, people like that are the last thing I need, and yet, this person has finally hit my boiling point, made me sound like I was the devil incarnate, sometimes people otta take a look in the mirror and quit judging people before they even try to take the time to get to know them.

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Aurora offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (18 minutes after post)

I know, but it is so much easier said than done, t;s amazing how even just one person can take another person down a few notches and not even feel bad about it.
I tried to apologize when technically I had no reason to need to apologize and yet they refused to except my apology, I/m tired of apologizing just to recieve an apology, it;s rediculous, I dont even know why I bother to try anymore.

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Starlight offline Verified User (5 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Halifax, NS, CA | 3 years, 9 months ago (22 minutes after post)

In Jr. High school one year, they was some one in my class who sounds very similar in nature to the people you discribed. Their entire goal was simply to bother me (and my friends). Its very annoying and draining to have to put up with people like that. From my expierence anyway, the only thing you really can do is to try to ignore it and wait till it goes away, as much as that sucks, theres proably not much else you can do. Avoid geting annoyed, or at least make it look like your not annoyed, as its what they want. I hope they stop bothering you soon.

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mimi_t offline Verified User (4 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (27 minutes after post)

they seem jealous of u for some reason. take the high road and ignore them. and if that doesn’t work confront them and demand to know what their problem is.

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Aurora offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (28 minutes after post)

Thanks
I had the same experiences in school, it;s just unfortunate that people that are so much older than you can act like a couple of school children.
All I wanna do is my job and I’d like to do the best I can, it is difficult though when you share a small office and have to put up with snide remarks hateful accusations just because you make some sort of impression with the work you do it should not have to make you feel like a bad person.

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Sairein offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (7 months after post)

I have to wonder too. My husband is so hateful! He’s always calling people outside our window Pieces of Sh**. I get so mad because he doesn’t even know them! He thinks 80% of the people in the world are worthless. The only person I hate is him, and I love him too. Agh!

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