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Im scared

I with the girl i like and i like her alot but some1 else asked her out and im afraid that she is gonna leave me cuz she talked to a person about the about the guy that asked her out and i like her and if she leaves me i think that ima lose control and just flat out **** up the guy that she goes with. What should i do. i mean all i want is a girl that will love me and i thought this would be the one but idk what should i do

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

Are you going out with her? How old r u?

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lilchewyreye offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
Are you going out with her? How old r u?

yea i still am.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

ok u r very young. Chances that this is the one u will marry r slim. If u want to avoid heartbreak don’t date until u r older.

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LoneWulf offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

First of start paying attention to the teacher in your English class secondly your acting paranoid, this pisses both men and women off and makes them feel trapped. Lastly beating him up will only further drive her into his arms, while in the slammer wearing a dress for “Big Bubba”.
If your under the age of 18, dont take this girl or the relationship seriously.

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lilchewyreye offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

EmptySoul wrote:
First of start paying attention to the teacher in your English class secondly your acting paranoid, this pisses both men and women off and makes them feel trapped. Lastly beating him up will only further drive her into his arms, while in the slammer wearing a dress for “Big Bubba”.
If your under the age of 18, dont take this girl or the relationship seriously.

i dont give a **** ill take him and all his ***** friends as long as he suffers

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LoneWulf offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (55 minutes after post)

lilchewyreye wrote:

EmptySoul wrote:
First of start paying attention to the teacher in your English class secondly your acting paranoid, this pisses both men and women off and makes them feel trapped. Lastly beating him up will only further drive her into his arms, while in the slammer wearing a dress for “Big Bubba”.
If your under the age of 18, dont take this girl or the relationship seriously.

i dont give a **** ill take him and all his ***** friends as long as he suffers

Thats not unreasonable at all no…. nope not at all..
Seriously, you sound like you have some anger issues. Get that looked after and perhaps your girl will stop shopping around if you know what i mean.

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Korwinn offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

lilchewyreye wrote:

EmptySoul wrote:
First of start paying attention to the teacher in your English class secondly your acting paranoid, this pisses both men and women off and makes them feel trapped. Lastly beating him up will only further drive her into his arms, while in the slammer wearing a dress for “Big Bubba”.
If your under the age of 18, dont take this girl or the relationship seriously.

i dont give a **** ill take him and all his ***** friends as long as he suffers

yea dude chill the **** out… don’t worry about it. Talking to somebody doesn’t mean ****. Have some ******* confidence in yourself and trust her judgment especially if she may be the “one.” But if it’s an issue just tell her you know some guy asked her out. If I were you I would joke about it. Example: “I heard you got another boyfriend? HAHA, well I hope he can do this (flex a pose, or just do something silly like pulling your thumb apart magic hand trick).” She’ll reply with a smile and you ask her whats up then.

think about it reversed though, if a girl liked you etc… wouldn’t you inquire about that girl with your friend or somebody that knew her?

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Sans offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 54 minutes after post)

If you want her to love you and not fear you, control your temper. If you become a bully, it won’t matter how good looking you are. The girls will go for the guy who listens to them and makes them laugh.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (5 hours, 5 minutes after post)

I like your passion! Treat her nice, while still having your own life (not forcing her to be with you every second!) and she will stay with you. Good luck!

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fmtpamch offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (2 weeks, 3 days after post)

im very scard to ask this girl out what do i do

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fmtpamch offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (2 weeks, 3 days after post)

im scared

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lilchewyreye offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

fmtpamch wrote:
im very scard to ask this girl out what do i do

just ask her this is the was i look at **** if i died tonight the girl i liked wouldnt know how i feel and maybe she felt the same way just make conversation and then say can i ask you something and then she will say yea then ask her

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