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Don’t you hate it when you have no idea why you want something to happen?

I’m waiting for my stupid ex to wish me a happy birthday. Idk why. I really don’t. I know I shouldn’t, but like right now we’re both online and I’m just like…hm. I wish he remembered my birthday. We don’t even have to have a conversation. I don’t really have much to say to him. I just would’ve appreciated some remembrance, like we used to know each other at all.

Ohhh well.

How’s everyone?

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Hellacious Haro offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

Ah, I’m sorry. I do hate that feeling.
Like you’re just expecting something… but it never happened.

But he’s an ex though… and some people just cut their ex’s out of their lives.
So it’s pretty common….

I hope your day gets better.

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lucy_h offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

Yeah…like your hope is destroyed. Destroyed hope is the sure way to kill a person.

We were intending to be friends but I think I kinda screwed that up, oh well, lol. He’s narcissistic anyway.

Thanks!

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Hellacious Haro offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

I don’t know how much this will mean to you but…. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
*Haro dances for the birthday girl*

Ah, sometimes things don’t go the way you intended.
Just keep thinking positively :D

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3 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

Aw, Happy Birthday!!

I know how you feel about wanting your ex to remember you.
:\.

Just remember that you’re way too good for him! :)

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lucy_h offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

Thank you both!!

Haha I know I’m way too good for him LOL I guess I just thought he’d be a little thoughtful and even just send me a text that says Happy birthday! That I can just be grateful for and then not respond to.

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zilverknight offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (56 minutes after post)

I’m not your x. nor do I know you.

Happy birthday Lucy_H I hope all your dreams and desire to come true.
That laughter and good fortune may be on your path we call live.

Have you planned anything to do today?

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lucy_h offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (58 minutes after post)

zilverknight wrote:
I’m not your x. nor do I know you.

Happy birthday Lucy_H I hope all your dreams and desire to come true.
That laughter and good fortune may be on your path we call live.

Have you planned anything to do today?

Haha thank you very much!
Well, the day’s already over for me, but I’ll probably do something next week cause this week doesn’t work.

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zilverknight offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

Ah okay. but didn’t you do anything today? the day isn’t over yet. something might still come out of it. It’s good you got something planned next week. What will you do?

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Eddieee offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 100 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 days, 23 hours after post)

F*** him!!! Happy Birthday Lucy :) :) :)

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lucy_h offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (4 days, 14 hours after post)

Eddieee wrote:
F*** him!!! Happy Birthday Lucy :) :) :)

Thanks (:

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