I really like this girl, but she really isn’t talking to me anymore should I just stop talking to her? - Help.com

i’d have to tell you not to concern yourself with that. if she isn’t responding and she isn’t picking up the signs, but rather just not talking to you at all, you may continue to talk to her casually but don’t put so much energy into it to the point where you’re desperate to talk to her. because you could be finding other women to talk to in that time who may be more interested.

if she decides to talk to you again, go with it, but for your own comfort, you should not waste too much energy on what isn’t responding back to you.

Your right, are compliments alright too. I don’t I just like her so much she has so much in common with me. And she’s like a closed person.

whitneythomas wrote:
sounds like yes you should just stop talking to her. its so hard but its harder if you keep trying and she keeps dissing you. i just went through this sort of thing with a boy and i am so happy that i finally made the decision to give up on trying to talk to him. stopped waiting for him to call. stopped thinking of reasons/excuses to explain why he wasn’t talking to me. erased old text messages. etc.
i am still a little sad and feel rejected but each day it feels better.
maybe she will notice you stop and shell start talking to you. that would be great!
but if she doesn’t it means she doesn’t like you the same way and doesn’t think about you as much as you think of her.
if she still hasn’t talked to you after the weekend make the choice to get over it and move on. there’s lots of wonderful girls out there!

I’ll try and do that if possible, but I really don’t want to give up on her. I like her so much, but I guess i’ma put her down.

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whitneythomas wrote:
sounds like yes you should just stop talking to her. its so hard but its harder if you keep trying and she keeps dissing you. i just went through this sort of thing with a boy and i am so happy that i finally made the decision to give up on trying to talk to him. stopped waiting for him to call. stopped thinking of reasons/excuses to explain why he wasn’t talking to me. erased old text messages. etc.
i am still a little sad and feel rejected but each day it feels better.
maybe she will notice you stop and shell start talking to you. that would be great!
but if she doesn’t it means she doesn’t like you the same way and doesn’t think about you as much as you think of her.
if she still hasn’t talked to you after the weekend make the choice to get over it and move on. there’s lots of wonderful girls out there!

I’ll try and do that if possible, but I really don’t want to give up on her. I like her so much, but I guess i’ma put her down.

do what you have to do for yourself.. but if she ever comes your way, don’t ignore her. just don’t make her your top priority.

I can try i’am very taken easily. I hate this so much.

some people are very closed off, i don’t know if she is that type of person, but if she is then you should keep trying.
she may never have had someone really try to break down her protective walls before. she may be scared of closeness.
or she just might not like you.
but for some reason i don’t think so…

hellohello wrote:
some people are very closed off, i don’t know if she is that type of person, but if she is then you should keep trying.
she may never have had someone really try to break down her protective walls before. she may be scared of closeness.
or she just might not like you.
but for some reason i don’t think so…

We’ve only spoken online she doesn’t really hang out with other people besides her family. And like I don’t want to be like hey um you wanna go out sometime. But wouldn’t that be annoying if I just keep trying to talk to her, even if she doesn’t reply to all of my messages only sometimes. I really want to grow in conversation with her and actually see her. I’ve only spoken to her sister before.

ahh, so this is mostly an online relationship. well i would just be honest with her then. shoot her a message saying “hey, i noticed that you arent really replying to me any more, and i was wondering what’s up.” if she likes you and she’s just being wierd then she will reply, but if she doesn’t reply to that then id just back off and call it a loss. i mean, you can’t just keep sending her messages if she doesn’t reply. but i hope she does!

We’re not together. We just talk as friends, but the thing is I like her soo much its not even funny. I find it hard to believe we have so much in common. And I told her I had a crush on her and all she was alright with that. I wanna get her to notice me somehow.