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I really really like a boy . Like a lot . He wants me to go tohis house this weekend, but I cant. I am not aloud, so I told him to come hangout with me somewhere else, and he said, that he really hates coming to the island
Ya see I live on an island and it has a twenty minute ferry ride to go to the mainland. We have to go to highschool on the mainland, and most of my friends live over there;I used to be able to go over there but now I cant until I start school again because I went somewhere i wasnt supossed to last time, and mom said she doesnt want me over there again until school starts.
So I dont know what to do about this. Because I really want to hangout with him like really bad. But I dont know where he would stay on the island , and I dont know how I would get to the mainland without my mother knowing, or with my mom knowing and saying it was ok.

HELP !

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becc 225 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (6 minutes after post)

just ask ur mom if u can go to the mainland to hang out with a friend. say its a girl. and say that ur only going to her house and thats it

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♥peace.love.music 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Ive tried that. But the last time I went there I said I was going to my friend toris and she said it was alright but really I went to my guy friends house Tanner, and she found out and now I cant go to the mainland. and She would most likely want me to call from there and such,

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becc 225 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

well then just tell the guy the truth. and then ask him maybe if he wants to meet up somewhere on the island cause u cant go to the mainland. if he doesnt want to then ur screwed……orrrrrr u could just tell ur mom the truth and ask her then.

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♥peace.love.music 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Yeh yeh. I could tell my mom the truth first and if she says no than ill talk to him,

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becc 225 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (16 minutes after post)

yeah. good plan. hope it works out for you!:D

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♥peace.love.music 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Thanks ! :)
I hope so to.

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Korwinn 15 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (30 minutes after post)

♥peace.love.music wrote:
Thanks ! :)
I hope so to.

or you just tool the guy. Pretty much just tell him that you can’t go over to the mainland if he wants to hang out he’s going to have to jump on the ferry and come see me. Just act like you want to see, but if you don’t it’s not that serious like you have other things you can do. If he likes you he’ll be over there pretty soon. Or actually blow him and that way and pretend it doesn’t bother you. The next time he will come over to the island and see you.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (32 minutes after post)

Korwinn wrote:

♥peace.love.music wrote:
Thanks ! :)
I hope so to.

or you just tool the guy. Pretty much just tell him that you can’t go over to the mainland if he wants to hang out he’s going to have to jump on the ferry and come see me. Just act like you want to see, but if you don’t it’s not that serious like you have other things you can do. If he likes you he’ll be over there pretty soon. Or actually blow him and that way and pretend it doesn’t bother you. The next time he will come over to the island and see you.

I could do that, but the thing is, i know if he likes me he will come and see me, but im scared that, he wont come and see me, and that he doesnt actually like me.

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Hello users,Im Sandy 8 #
CA | 3 months ago (39 minutes after post)

Sweetie, just tell him to come visit you to the mainland and if he says he doesn’t want to then just tell him, “Okay, well see you when school starts then”. You got to make this boy work for it a little bit. If he wants to see he should take his butt to you.

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♥peace.love.music 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (44 minutes after post)

Hello users,Im Sandy wrote:
Sweetie, just tell him to come visit you to the mainland and if he says he doesn’t want to then just tell him, “Okay, well see you when school starts then”. You got to make this boy work for it a little bit. If he wants to see he should take his butt to you.

Awh thanks ! 3
What you said makes a lot of sense, so Ill tryyyyy

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HARVARDgirl!! :) 217 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (59 minutes after post)

tell her the truth!!!ask her 2 let u go!!

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Korwinn 15 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

♥peace.love.music wrote:

Hello users,Im Sandy wrote:
Sweetie, just tell him to come visit you to the mainland and if he says he doesn’t want to then just tell him, “Okay, well see you when school starts then”. You got to make this boy work for it a little bit. If he wants to see he should take his butt to you.

Awh thanks ! 3
What you said makes a lot of sense, so Ill tryyyyy

that’s what I meant, I just didn’t put it so eloquently.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Korwinn wrote:

♥peace.love.music wrote:

Hello users,Im Sandy wrote:
Sweetie, just tell him to come visit you to the mainland and if he says he doesn’t want to then just tell him, “Okay, well see you when school starts then”. You got to make this boy work for it a little bit. If he wants to see he should take his butt to you.

Awh thanks ! 3
What you said makes a lot of sense, so Ill tryyyyy

that’s what I meant, I just didn’t put it so eloquently.

Oh haha. :) well thank you too than

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